I like this guy but my best friend also likes him and they're goin out even though i have told her that i like him too.But he confessed to me that he only likes her a little bit and likes another girl even more. I'm not sure if that girl is me. what do i do?????????????
2006-11-10 18:17:42 · 13 answers · asked by instaBaBy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stay out of it.... don't get involved one way or the other... getting involved in other peoples relationships like that will only hurt YOU... both parties will blame you for the break up... for ruining their happiness... etc...
It's better to have a friend than a bf/gf... part of being a friend is not always trying to "Save" them from being hurt... but to be there for them when they are hurt... "The object of life is not to never fall... but to get up when you do"... sometimes... your friends are the ones who pick you up when you're down...
If you think he is interested in you... then I would try to keep your distance from him... don't give him signs that you're interested in him... especially not when your friend is dating/seeing him... the last thing you wanna do is hurt you're friend... or even damage the trust and love that you're friend has in you...
2006-11-10 18:31:15 · answer #1 · answered by grimmy19812000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about this guy and move on with your life. I don't care how great he is, he isn't worth losing your best friend over. Guys will come and go, but friends are always there for you. If you let a guy come between you and your friend, you will never forgive yourself. (And neither will she.)
2006-11-11 02:22:38 · answer #2 · answered by No Shortage 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoah.....HEAD GAMES.....and you guys thought only us girls did that !! For whatever reason, he's going out with the girl he wants to be going out with. If it was the other girl, or even you then he would be...he's a player, don't get your hopes up and move on.
2006-11-11 02:31:15 · answer #3 · answered by T-Bone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you first need to find out, but dont get with him even if he does, your best friend will hate you, i promise. Be careful, decide who matters more, your BEST FRIEND or some GUY that will eventually be gone.
2006-11-11 02:27:44 · answer #4 · answered by cooltmb08 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guys is trying to cheat on both of you. by telling you this, he is hinting to you that you might be the other girl. but at the same time he is still dating your friend. he is a two-timer.
beware, dump him and tell your friend about it before he hurts both of you or both you and your friend might end up as rivals because of this jerk. think straight.
2006-11-11 02:23:03 · answer #5 · answered by caterpillar 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hes just ttryong to get you to THINK That its you.
its not, so i say move on.
hes gonna hurt you and your best friend
and then your friend will be mad at you and he will have screwed you both over. and he will win.
so move on and forget about him
he seems like a loser
2006-11-11 02:52:49 · answer #6 · answered by mandy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is your best friend, find another dude. Thats what wrong with you girls, no loyalty to one another as soon as a dick comes around. LOL
2006-11-11 02:24:55 · answer #7 · answered by KOkoweena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummmm... If you were a good friend you wouldn't be asking this ? You would allready know!~~~Think about it!
2006-11-11 02:26:34 · answer #8 · answered by It's just me! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont tell your friend what the boy told you if you need more advice email me at keyla_brown123@yahoo.com
2006-11-11 02:26:05 · answer #9 · answered by Ms. Complicated 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are her best friend, forget about him. especially if you don't know his feelings for you. don't ruined your friendship for a guy.. good luck!!!!!
2006-11-11 02:24:55 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋