we hardly see each other but i like him a whole lot. but when we're on the phone its idle boring conversation i could talk about stuff but i'm embaressed help! (i need some guys for this one)
2006-11-10 18:13:44 · 11 answers · asked by corie j 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im not a guy but starting a conversation can be hard! aspecially when its over the phone! telling him more about yourself can make your relationship stronger and make you and him have an understanding for each other! tell him when something is bothering you, and ask him what is bothering him.... make silly jokes act yourself!!! don tchange who you are to make him happy! if you want to tyalk to him about something then do it! it will make him more confident to talk to you aout personal stuff and next time you and him are talking he might strike up a conversation!!!! good luck with him though!!!
2006-11-10 18:31:24 · answer #1 · answered by rubyflats 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you may have lost the "spark" between each other. i would go crazy if my bf didnt have anything talk about. i say try to get him to talk but if it doesnt work then i say end it (but not in a mean way though, its not like he's an *** or anything)
but my love life is nothing right now so you do whatever you want to do.
i hope everything goes well between the two of you!
2006-11-11 02:29:16 · answer #2 · answered by ... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a universal desire of every human being is to be able to talk about themselves and have someone listen. just get him talking by askign questions. you can even say "we're dating so you know there's a few things i'd like to know about you...." and just start asking! once you do this, you'll find out what you have in common and you can begin having real conversations about these things,.
2006-11-11 02:25:17 · answer #3 · answered by Brento! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a new boyfriend before you fall into a coma while trying to make conversation.
2006-11-11 02:20:02 · answer #4 · answered by No Shortage 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your boyfriend... about him. What did he do today? What sports is he into? What teacher really peeves him and why? Where would he like to holiday, if he could go anywhere? What's his favourite hockey/basketball/baseball team?
2006-11-11 02:18:55 · answer #5 · answered by redlacca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen i have the same prob. i dont know i talk to him on the phone all the time but when were around each other theres like no conva. if you know what i mean then he complains about how we never talk uh he dont talk to me so why do they have to just put it on you like that
2006-11-11 02:53:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
PLZ TALK TO HIM AND BOTH OF U TAKE INTREST IN EACH OTHER AND ,IF U LOVE HIM THEN U NEED TO TAKE INTREST IN HIM . IN MY OPINION U SHOULD:
1. TALK TO HIM ABOUT UR DAILY ROUTINE AND ASK FOR HIS ALSO AND TAKE INTREST IN HIM
2. GO TO PARKS AND ENJOY
3. ENJOY EACH AND EVERY MOMENT WITH HIM
BY THIS WAY U WILL LIKE TO BE WITH HIM AND UR COVERSATION WITH HIM WILL BECOME VERY INTRESTING
THANK U ,GO AND DO SO
2006-11-11 02:43:49 · answer #7 · answered by sam_indiakasuperstar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eventually you'll be more comfortable with him, talk about the things he likes, things he's interested in. and if you know nothing about these things, RESEARCH! lol, give boys compliments, boost his ego, they like that. good luck! (sorry i'm not a guy, but i hope it helps)
2006-11-11 02:19:22 · answer #8 · answered by cooltmb08 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you want to have a long conversation ? just tell him you have been having wet dreams about him...and holy mama...you will have one heck of a long conversation
2006-11-11 02:18:47 · answer #9 · answered by serengeti 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the guy above me!!!
2006-11-11 02:17:38 · answer #10 · answered by cetinnovations 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋