Have you told those you Love that you Love them lately?

Question

Have you told those you Love that you Love them recently?
sometimes we wait to late to go see those we care about or call them on the phone just to say Hi or I love you you never know when a loved one will be snatched from you. My 28 year old daughter was murdered 11 months ago and one of the things that I hold in my heart is that even though we sure had our ups and downs the day she died I'd decided to give her an early Christmas gift a new winter coat I was mad at her on Monday as we were arguing about her BF and on Tuesday i decided to go see her and give her the coat she loved it kissed me said I love you and 8 1/2 hours later her BF killed her If I hadn't decided to go see her and the last words we'd had would have been in anger I would not have been able to survive this. if you love someone tell them today call your parents, your kids, your grandparents, your friends, whoever don't wait until it may be too late God Bless You All

I've always believed that God gave me those last moments with her as I'd been tossing around as to give her her coat early or not I made the decision as I left home that day and put the coat in the car so I'd be sure to stop by her place before coming home that evening it was very strong the urge to go there maybe just because she was having a bad time with her BF and I wanted to make her feel better I don't know but God gave me that time. When my grandma died 10 years ago I had a strong urge to see her in the hospital the night before but visiting hours were over and I knew her B-day was the next day so I said I'd wait even though as I passed the hospital on my way from work I felt I should try to get in to see her. she died the next day 3 hours before I got off work I loved her alot and my decison to not stop the night before has lived with me always I was mad at her for being grouchy with my kids and that was probably part of my hesitation she was a great grandma but grouchy

Answer 1

No I haven't told any of my family I love them, not for a long time. I will rectify that right away. Life is very precious and fragile, we should treasure every moment.

Answer 2

Just yesterday I talked to my mother on the phone and said I love you. I try to keep in touch with my parents as often as possible, especially since my father has prostate cancer and that has metathesized.(sp) I do wish my brother lived closer, but he lives in California and I live in Oregon, but despite that, emotionally we're very close and love each other dearly. You are right though. My oldest brother died in a car accident a little over 20 years ago and I wasn't able to tell him that I loved him before that happened. I know that he knew I loved him, but just not being able to say I love you Steve still kind of hurts.

I am so sorry you had to go through such a difficult time. God Bless you. You will be in my prayers.

Answer 3

Wow..what a testimony of faith! I am sure heartbroken to hear of such a terrible tragedy. May the Lord continue to surround you with His Peace that surpasses all understanding! May He guide you to be able to continue to stand strong even in the face of such sorrow. Hebrews 6:9 But, beloved, we are confident of better things concerning you, yes, things that accompany salvation, though we speak in this manner. 10 For God is not unjust to forget your work and labor of love which you have shown toward His name, in that you have ministered to the saints, and do minister. 11 And we desire that each one of you show the same diligence to the full assurance of hope until the end.
Psalm 116:15 Precious in the sight of the Lord Is the death of His saints.
Matthew 5:4Blessed are those who mourn, For they shall be comforted.
May God keep you in His perfect & matchless grace & Love!

Answer 4

This jewelry so authentic for me. My dad surpassed directly to the excellent beyond the day only before this on the age of seventy 4. We had an particularly particular relationship and talked a minimum of a million time each and every week. We continuously ended the communique by ability of asserting " i like YOU" Went to pass spend each and every week with him final week not understanding he could pass this week. this is going to continuously be the main memoral week I ever had with him. We laughed, cried, hugged and only had a brilliant week. i will omit him continuously, even though, I haven't any dought he knew continuously how very lots he grew to become into enjoyed.

Answer 5

Thank you, you are in my prayers. I also lost my daughter but she was still a child. I have faith she is watching me & I be able to tell her again, I Love You.

Answer 6

I tell my family every day. This includes my parents, my sister, my brothers, my aunts, my uncles, my children.

Answer 7

Love you too Jellybean!!!

Answer 8

Thanks,you've just made me remember.It's been so long.Thanks again.