ok the delima is that i am in love with this beautiful angel and finding out that she loves me the same way and would do anything to be with me unfortanetly she has a boyfriend , who doesnt treat her like she needs to be treated and he doesnt appreciate her. Second of all she is only hanging around with him cause he is goin through a rough patch in his life and she wants to be there for him. We ( me and her) want so badly to be togethor. all adive is helpful . pllzzz help
2006-11-10 17:42:38 · 12 answers · asked by Leo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try to win her over. Here are the 15 ways to win a girl's heart:
1. hugs from behind.
2. grab her hand when you guys walk next to each other.
3. when standing, wrap your arms around her.
4. cuddle with her.
5. dont force anything on her.
6. write little notes.
7. compliment her honestly.
8. when you hug her, hold her in your arms as long as possible.
9. say i love you, and mean it!
10. comfort her when she cries.
11. tell her she is beautiful not hott.
12. pick her up and flirt with her [she'll scream and say put me down but really she loves it].
13. kiss her on the forehead
14. compliment her on her hair. dont tell her when it looks bad, only when it looks extravagant!
15. talk to her in front of your friends.
Do whatever seems appropriate at the time.
2006-11-10 17:49:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would seduce the panties off her. You can only hang in there with a bad relationship for so long no matter what the reason. Be nice to her and show her how an angel should be treated.
2006-11-11 01:48:00 · answer #2 · answered by barbie2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a little tough because it sounds like she may be co-dependent with this guy and honestly if she really loves you she will be with you but at the same time don't let her take advantage of you tell her she needs to make a choice.
2006-11-11 01:48:09 · answer #3 · answered by milo2angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful. SHe sounds needy too. She needs to make a clean break with the other guy. The fact that she is willing to be there for him and he doesn't really appreciate her makes her sound like she has some issues.
2006-11-11 01:47:53 · answer #4 · answered by sugarmonkey47 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's best to bide your time until she is ready to end it with him. it's not fair to him, no matter how he treats her, for you to disrespect his relationship like that. on the other hand- she needs to get over her sympathy for him and end it. it's likely that his mistreatment of her is a form of dependancy. he feels like he can take out all of the negative things in his life on her. maybe he would be more likely to solve his own problems if he didn't have her to use as an emotional scapegoat. she'd really be doing him a favor by leaving. let her know this and let her know that it's not fair for her to lie to him and to force you to be a part of this lie. if she wants to be with you, she shouldn;t be filling out your rain check.
2006-11-11 01:52:21 · answer #5 · answered by Brento! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a wonderful relationship....If you enjoy nothing but drama. Also a good way to find yourself getting a nice face massage, done by her boyfriend's fist.
2006-11-11 01:49:11 · answer #6 · answered by hankthecowdog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she love you like she said. she would leave him. second of all maybe you should let her break up with her bf and see where things go. i know you said her bf is going though a hard time right now but if you guys want to be together. you guys need to be paient. so i would say talk to her and see where things stand. good luck
2006-11-11 01:48:26 · answer #7 · answered by Melda R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being there for him does not mean that she needs to continue in a bad relationship. Obviously there is at least one very important thing she won't do to be with you and that is break up with her boyfriend.
2006-11-11 01:50:02 · answer #8 · answered by babydoll 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
although i understand that he is going through some things, so is everybody else. i would tell her to listen to her heart and make a final decision but, dont sound needy or pushy. if she loves you, she will make sure things with her current boy are finalized before moving forward...just make sure she is absolutely in love with you as well. best of luck!
2006-11-11 01:48:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
means she doesnt hv a mind of her own.hanging aroung with the bf out of obligation.if she and you were to be together,you will not know if her passion for you is still flaming because she could still be with you out of obligation.
2006-11-11 01:49:20 · answer #10 · answered by pristine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋