OKAY! My boyfriend & I broke up a year ago & he went to the National Guard in June. While there he started writing me letters & we kind of started havin feelings 4 each other again or @ least I did I'm not sure about him. Then after he went to a different base he started callin me & we talked everyday 4 hours. So my feelings got stronger. I had him out of my system completely then all of a sudden he just pops up like a zit. The problem is he stopped talkin to me completely with no reason or warning. Then his friend said that he is doing it for my good. How is that good??? How can you get some1's hopes up like that then smash them like a roach? He is still gone & won't be home for a couple months & be4 he said that we will see what happens when he gets back but it isn't definite that we will get back 2gether. That I could handle but the catch is that I looked at his page & he has other girls on it. I was upset when I saw it. Does that mean that I am in LOVE? If so what the crap do I do?
2006-11-10 17:37:06 · 7 answers · asked by bowman_w04 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This isn't love, he has just been using you when he's been feeling lonely, worst of all you've allowed him to, tell him to get lost. Good luck.
2006-11-10 18:15:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jeez! Ditch this loser! Strong feelings on ONE SIDE do not equal LOVE. Love is two people who love being together and don't even have to talk. It's about two people who are happiest when trying to make the OTHER happy! You will find true love some day. This guy is NOT IT. NOT NOT NOT!
2006-11-11 01:42:44 · answer #2 · answered by Miz Teri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you are still in love with him. but i think you should forget about him. i think he playing with your head and dont fall for it girl. i dont think he mean anything he said. if he has girls on his page then how do you know he not telling them the same stuff. so i would say move on and forget him and meet new people. good luck
2006-11-11 01:42:51 · answer #3 · answered by Melda R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not love. he's talking to other girls could see how you were getting so he droppd you for your own good. so he doesn't hurt you more later on. he needed a friend that he could talk to
2006-11-11 01:42:29 · answer #4 · answered by space case 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not in love and neither is he...START DATING BECAUSE LOOK WHAT HE DID THE FIRST TIME????HUMMMM!!!He is still looking at other girls....hummmm!!!
2006-11-11 01:45:40 · answer #5 · answered by sweet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is N O T love
2006-11-11 01:41:18 · answer #6 · answered by q6656303 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, you are in jealousy.
2006-11-11 01:40:28 · answer #7 · answered by sugarmonkey47 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋