Best way to come on to a girl for the first time?

Question

Okay so I have been checking this girl out lately. I like the way she looks and she seems to be nice. We work at the same place, but she works in a different department. I dont seem to ever have any breaks with her, and are lunches at everytime. Otherwise this would be much more convenient. So I am thinking I am just going to have to come on to her within a 5 minute gap during the middle of work and say something. I think she can tell I like her. Or atleast I have been checking her out. I can see the nervousness in her eyes as she can probably see in mine. But hopefully hers is good nervousness, and not the "Gosh I am going to have to reject him" nervousness. Lol. So whacha says people? What should I say? Well I know what I would say.. but I wanna have this one locked down this time. Give me something good, something shed love to hear and a follow up line to do something, or get her number, or I dont know. Help me please. For 10 shiny points Lol. Thanks.

Answer 1

allright, i know what you mean bro. Smile at her first, and look into her eyes. Then say I would like the opportunity to get to know you better, and see if you can get her number. If she rejects you, say your sorry for asking. That way, you did it properly. Trust me man, sometime or another we have all been rejected, but dont go in thinking your gonna get rejected. Envision yourslef getting her number.

Answer 2

Don't be too scared, just walk up to her and tell her that you've seen her around lately, and try to start a friendly conversation. If you find anything that she enjoys, remember what it was, so that if you ask her out, you can do what she likes. One thing that's easy and that you can do to give a good impression is to just be nice. Hold the door for her, help her carry her stuff. Remember, chivalry isn't dead. If you get to be good friends, you can start leaving her little notes, and you can compliment her honestly. Remember, honestly. Women hate it when you lie. Tell her that her hair looks nice, but only if it does look nice. Tell her that she looks pretty, not hot. when the time comes, just ask her out. you will have a feeling when the time comes. You can tell if she likes you if she smiles and blushes a lot.

Answer 3

Why not simply see her at her work station and say hi! then ask her how is she going to spend the week end. If she is interested she will tell you that she is doing nothing so theres your que to suggest that perhaps she might like to accompany you to a movie or lunch etc., This way its totally harmless and neither of you will become embarrased. Go ahead as she probable feels the same way as well.

Answer 4

Why don't you just walk up to her and ask her out on a date? The answer is either yes, or no, but either way you have your answer!

Answer 5

YOU MUST talk to her casually, small talk. for you to just walk over there and "come onto her" would be way awkward for her. just try to get some friendly conversation going and go from there, depending on what type of vibe you get.

Answer 6

Just ask her out for a drink that way there's little or no pressure.

Answer 7

sorry, to burst your bubble...BUT WORK RELATIONSHIPS ARE NEVER GOOD, UNLESS ONE IS GOING TO MOVE ON TO ANOTHER job...Plus people will ask questions...the nosy nellies....You would have to lie ( a white lie)...and say..."oh we are just friends.." and ACT that way"...or the malicious gossip will start...i have seen people get together at work and break up...it is never easy unless one is planning on getting out of that job......TAKE IT FROM ONE WHO KNOWS....and if you break up you would have to AVOID one another...causes problems....

Answer 8

Drive up in a Viper and ask her if she wants a ride,,,,