not with that girl anymore but i don't believe him because i keep catching him in lies all the time. what should i do about it i don't want to loose him but i don't want to hurt like this anymore.
2006-11-10 17:23:23 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well you have already answered your own question. Lets see if you stay your going to continue getting hurt and used and possibly an std. If you go you will not have to be concerned with his lies and affairs. Don't be a doormat for him, stand up and be strong for awhile I bet you'll start enjoying life more from the standing position.
2006-11-10 17:34:49 · answer #1 · answered by kara25701 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why are you so silly to have believe him again and again? Have you not heard of a saying: "Once bitten, Twice shy"? How many times must you be bluffed or get cheated by him before you can come to your senses? Since you know he has been lying & cheating on you for so many times? Why do you still give him so many chances to cheat on you again? If a guy can cheat on you, of course he can also lie to you. This is simple analogy. Think about it carefully. If your bf really loves you, how can he bear to cheat on you and cause hurt in you? That's not true love! I know that you love him alot and can't lose him but what's the point of having your bf's body, but not his heart and mind? He's as good as leaving you already! A body without the soul & heart is as good as a dead person. You're just having an empty shell now! How long can you withstand with his attitude and behaviours? I felt that you should stand firm and ditch him, don't let him take advantage of your foolishness. He's a very selfish guy, he wants to own BEST of the both worlds! A girlfriend and many flings - fat hope! I just hope you can understand sometimes when it's time to let go, pls let go, don't drag it any further. He'll not be hurt but you'll. You'll be hurt by loving him so much and get betrayal from him. But what he gains is an ego-booster, many flings and to have a silly gf to be cheated & toyed by him so many times!!! Be like a real woman, stand up on your own, ditch him & I'm very sure you'll get a better bf. You clearly know he's not what you want in your life ultimately. You definitely will not want to get married with this unfaithful to be your husband right? You know it and just do it...dump him right away. Don't wait till things turn worse and then regret later. It's all too late by then!!! Anyway, if you don't do what we've said. It's still back to square one and I guessed I've just wasted my time and saliva advising you! "All the best to you then!"
2006-11-10 17:39:27 · answer #2 · answered by PoshBerries 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you can't have that both my dear..You can't be hurt if you do not want to loose him..If you really proved that he's cheating on you then why you still there in your relationship?Its because you love him?Loving him is not only the reason why you should stay in that relationship but your happiness also..But you just get hurt everytime you catch him cheating on you..Do you want to be like this for the rest of your life?Loving someone who doesnt love you faithfully?Give yourself some deep thinking,so you could decide with no regrets in your heart.You should be ready on what will happen next if you get out of that relationship,but its the choice that you can do to be good atleast to yourself.If he really loves you then he will be the one who will go back to you with a better love for you.Just dont tolerate his unfaithfullness, at the end you will regret it for the rest of your life,if both of you will get married in the future.Hope i could help you somehow.
2006-11-10 17:38:10 · answer #3 · answered by missy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay, this is kind of confusing; you know the known, and you chose to close your eyes in the known knowns like they are unknowns?
Eventually honey you will get hurt and when it is time to move it wil be too late, there will be too many hurts and scars. if you would listen to me, I would tel you like leave yesterday. you can do without a cheating friend, there are a lot of good ment out there.
Sometimes we stick to people we don't care for because we are afraid that we wil not get another friend, that is a lie of the devil. Get out of that relationship, and have fun with your girlfriends, it is much better than being cheated on when you know...and you know...the knowns, but you you put your head in the sand like you dont know the unknowns, or the efffects it's gonna have on you.
2006-11-10 17:30:29 · answer #4 · answered by Trinity 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He sounds fairly insecure approximately himself - his previous gf in all probability did only that to him, so he's only scared. regardless of the undeniable fact that, if, such as you're saying, he "keeps" doing this it gets annoying. I propose sitting him down, in line with probability with a bottle of wine or something so it variety of feels extra social than useful and reassuring him which you will no longer cheat on him or bypass away except he supplies reason to. make constructive he digests the suggestions, and then with politeness (you are able to shop calm for this bit) tell him that his non-supply up asking this of you is pushing you away. Make him believe he has no longer something to be scared approximately and he won't shop asking you to reassure him x
2016-12-10 06:55:49 · answer #5 · answered by goslin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have already answered your question. You don't want to get hurt anymore so leave.
He has lied to you before about this and you found out what makes you think this time is any different?
Don't do this to yourself.
You deserve so much better. Tell him it is over and mean it. Do not allow him back into your life.
2006-11-10 17:28:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE. Once a cheater always a cheater.
If he loved you he would not cheat. You have a lot of love to give, it sounds like, so give it to someone who deserves it!
And think of all the diseases and things he could be bringing home to you. Not everything can be cured with penicillin. Protect yourself... your health AND your heart... leave.
2006-11-10 17:32:53 · answer #7 · answered by fluffomatic24 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't complain about this ar*ehole if you're not prepared to do anything about it. It's you that have allowed him to treat you like a doormat,be brave and tell him to sling his hook. One day you'll meet someone who will really love you - this guy doesn't love anyone but himself ! Remember that you are responsible for your own life. Good luck.
2006-11-10 17:53:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't have your cake and eat it too. This guy obviously does not know the meaning of the word love. Tell him bye and find someone who will be truthful to you.
2006-11-10 17:36:17 · answer #9 · answered by rosey 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is where you learn to become a woman and not a girl. You have to realize that he is only using you as his back up as oppose to his woman. You deserve to be someones woman not their back up everytime they cheat. It is time to let him go. You will only feel greater pain because you chose not to let him go. Trust me, you gain by moving forward, not by staying with him.
2006-11-10 17:34:30 · answer #10 · answered by Wheres the Rum Gone? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋