i dont hv a bf. whenever i see a handsome boy i feel like he is made 4 me. i study in a girls school and in my neighbourhood their aint any boys of my age.i m not so beautiful just plain. do u think i will ever get a bf. moreover my family wont like boys phoning me. i cant even meet my friends outside in their homes. i m allowed only 2 go 2 their b'day parties.what 2 do , help!!!i m 13 yrs.
2006-11-10 17:21:32 · 18 answers · asked by riya r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey i m a indian
2006-11-10 17:29:58 · update #1
i cant talk 2 my parents . the problem is that i love my school even if its girls school. i m an indian so gv ur answers in this point of view cause we r not allowed(by parents) to hv bf or hang out with frnds. but pls help!!!
2006-11-10 17:32:34 · update #2
i hv got some answers which r meant for americans or british but offcoursely not 4 indians!!!! i hope u understand
2006-11-10 17:35:30 · update #3
Listen sweetie when I was thirteen my parents were the worst with the strictness. But as u get older it will get easier. Plus I'm sure you are a pretty girl, and you will get your boyfriend, just don't try and rush it. Plus don't try and change who you are to get a guy...worst mistake ever. Just be yourself. An all girls school does kinda stink, but my mother went to an all girls catholic school, and yet she met my father and they fell in love and have been married for 32 years. So trust me your special someone WILL come..plus you want someone who'll love you, not break your heart right? If anything talk to your parents about letting you go to a boy/girl school for high school, and if u show them you're responsible and that they can trust u, they will start giving you more freedoms. With my parents it was "you have to earn our trust for us to give it to you". So it may seem like they're being unreasonable but that's just cause they love us and want the best for their children. It did annoy me but I'm 18 and I have my liberty and am happy to report that they didn't drive me insane lol. So enjoy your life, study hard, be the best that you can be,and before you know it boyfriends will start coming and going.
2006-11-10 18:07:31 · answer #1 · answered by riamaria2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is good that you are realizing that this is a problem now that you are 13. I whas pretty much in the same situation, and I did not realized it till I was 19!!! and in my freshman year in college. I also the same like you, just Plain
What heped me to go out of the situation was talking to many people about it. For example, maybe you have a friend that has many brothers, maybe you know a guy that is not sucessful with girls. GO out with him, by that you are telling society. I exist and they you can change guy.
Go out with girls that know how to deal with guys, they will teach you.
Also, change your clothes, clothes for girls do not have to be really expensive, but try to wear skirts a lot, tops, have long hair
this things seem meaningless to you, but they mean a lot for guys
Good luck
2006-11-10 17:46:29 · answer #2 · answered by www.tr-avel.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to ur parents and ask them if you can go to the mall with some friends and then when that works ask them if its ok to have a bf. Take ur time I was in a similar position and it took a while to get that. I hope this helps.
2006-11-10 17:29:56 · answer #3 · answered by jcpreston08 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There might not be a lot of guys who will have strong feelings for you, but every once in a while, there will be a guy who thinks you are special. Look for signs that he likes you. If he chooses to hang out with you over his other friends, he may like you. Also, if he seems to be unusually kind to you, he probably likes you. You have to be patient for the perfect guy to come.
2006-11-10 17:29:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know what you mean. i'm 12 and COMPLETELY plain! trust me you will get a boyfriend. my school doesn't allow dating and if you date then you're not allowed on the school trips. you will get a boyfriend, it's just a matter of time. there's a boy out there that's perfect for you and you'll find him eventually but for now, enjoy your life without the broken hearts that boyfriends give. enjoy being a teenager because i know i will with or without a boyfriend. they're no good utill you're ready to really fall in love with them. you're fine!
2006-11-10 17:29:48 · answer #5 · answered by BAR 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think tht if u ask guys out they will most likely want to go out with u but to take care of the parental problem u shud try 2 tell ur parents 2 give u more indepndence. if they dont listen then u shud try to make ur parents no tht he is going 2 call. VOTE ME BEST ANSWER!!!
2006-11-10 17:37:05 · answer #6 · answered by Joe Kickgrass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya you will get a boyfriend eventually but it may take some time because you go to an all girls school. good luck. oh ya and if u really really want a bf heaven forbide go talk to the guys u want and pursue them.
2006-11-10 17:32:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to chillax.... ur only 13!!! thts way tooooo young ti sit and think of guys.... u need to concentrate on yr studies or else ull ruin yr career... trust me ALL YR LIFE u can sit n date.... but right now u are in like wht 8th or 9th grade right?? if u dont study well n think about all this ull be the failure... and nobody likes failure right?? so just chillax study well and think that u have all yr college yrs to make new friends...
2006-11-10 17:26:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. You'll eventually get a bf. Just hang out with guys whenever you get the chance to.
2006-11-10 17:25:57 · answer #9 · answered by Hemp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the thing is..you don't really need a bf. I've been there and I've only had one bf and now that it's over it hella sucks. You should only have a bf when you're really ready and old enough.
2006-11-10 17:35:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋