I have this friend who is just started to date her new b/f and well he has a child from his old relationship. She has so much hate and anger towards him. I haven't said anything to her yet, but I know this is wrong. She treats him badly and tells him that his mother is a b*tch and a sl*t to his face. How can tell her that this is wrong?
2006-11-10 17:17:37 · 13 answers · asked by jelly_bean_kelly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OMG Hell yeah thats wrong. I think you need to go straight to her boyfriend and tell him what she is really like. Does he already know what's she doing to this child? I wouldn't be friends with a preson like this in the first place. It sounds to me like she is jelous that he pays attention or something to him not to her. She is the one that's a b**ch.
2006-11-10 18:07:23 · answer #1 · answered by rach 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is so wrong to have that much hate for a child. Children are sponges and are constantly soaking up everything you say. Just because she doesnt like his mother doesnt mean she has to be mean to him and say hurtful things. That is still his mother and hurts his feelings when she is talked about like that behind her back, no matter how bad she may be. It is still wrong. You just need to sit down with her and tell her that just because you dont like this woman, dont tell her child about it! Say be nice to him he is only a kid, he didnt do anything to you. Let her know that she is being a bad influence and that she is hurting the child mentally. Hope this helps!
2006-11-10 17:23:23 · answer #2 · answered by thisiswhatisay! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She also needs to understand that little boy will be a young man and he'll remember all that stuff she's saying and it may get ugly on her. She's an idiot basically and that's not my opinion based on this description, THAT'S A FACT. If she doesn't have sense enough to know that child can't help that he's the son of his dad's by another woman then she needs mental help because she's f*ckin retarded. No way in hell I'd be with a stupid a** woman like that.
2006-11-10 17:30:39 · answer #3 · answered by ill-logik 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have to restrain myself from sounding off on your friend, but I am very much against ANYONE taking out their frustrations and insecurities on defenseless beings, children and animals. You should recommend that she see a therapist, the girl has some issues. She should not be involved with anyone at this point, as it seems she is still a child herself in an adult body. I urge you to tell her something before she causes more damage to him than his parents already have.
2006-11-10 17:26:41 · answer #4 · answered by suenos 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show him the compassion you obviously possess. All children deserve love. It sounds like your friend is very jealous of him.
Tell your friend that what she is doing is very cruel and if she wont listen, go behind her back and let the boy's dad know whats going on. If its difficult to tell your friend, use yourself as an example, by saying something like, "I would be so upset if someone said things like that about my Mum, Wouldnt you?"
2006-11-10 17:27:02 · answer #5 · answered by rubyflats 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't tell her, tell your friend. Tell him that it wouldn't be good if they got close, and his girl abused the kid. By the looks of this, it would probably be best for everyone if they broke up. If your friend's girl abused the kid, she may go to jail, the kid may be in the hospital or morgue, and your friend will be really sad, and probably depressed. After that, it won't be fun to hang out with him anymore.
2006-11-10 17:24:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all you look your friend right in the eye balls and say hey what you are doing to this child is called MENTAL ABUSE . does his father know ? if he does and he is still dating this woman , then he not much of a father. if he doesn't know you need to tell him .
2006-11-10 17:25:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend is a psycho! She's the one who needs help; not the kid. She needs to get the hell out of the relationship and out of the kids life and into therapy.
2006-11-10 17:25:02 · answer #8 · answered by OU812 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell her that u cant treat ur parents like that but you should tell the dada and get her help because she has anger issues
2006-11-10 17:24:38 · answer #9 · answered by all_canadin_girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is badly wrong. the kid is probably going though enough having his parents divorced. he doens't need some ***** saying that to him. if i was the guy i would dump your friend. blood comes 1st
2006-11-10 17:21:01 · answer #10 · answered by DA-LL /Male/ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋