We just started dating and we both admitted that we like each other. Unfortunately he lost his job recently and he has no mood to try to work on this relationship. He'd rather hang out with his friends and "de-stress" himself than to talk to me. (sometimes i don't know what advice to give him besides...."this is not the end of the world, don't worry, everything will be fine!!"....but it doesn't seen to help him to feel better) Nowadays, i contact him more than he does to me. What should i do? Should i let him relax for a few days and wait for him to contact me? or should i contact him to see whether he is okay?
2006-11-10 17:08:32 · 8 answers · asked by polinatora 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like he is going into a depression all you can do is stand by him and encourage him until he gets though this stage in his life. Or leave his butt. Its that simple.
2006-11-10 17:13:27 · answer #1 · answered by girlio33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember this. An 25 year old Glass has a value worth Millions but once its broken .... its not even worth a penny. try talking to him after dinner someday, Maybe he is concerned about you and the kids.. about the future and is having a hard time at work. because now he is a dad of two... thats twice the responsibility. maybe he, like every human, is just wearing a smile for the world and expects you to break the ice and ask him whats really troubling him. and please dont ever lose your temper. keep your cool. the essence of a great marriage is that when one has lost his temper the other is there for backup. dont give up so easily. make him comfortable wait for the right moment and feel the right vibes, if you dont get the occasional joke... crack one... keep the harmony and peace maintained back at home for him to open up. and when someday he feels low, give him a warm hug and ask him... the reason. Please keep the faith. Trust Me. Cheers
2016-05-22 04:37:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he's depress becoz e lost he's job. give him time to think. or while he's with his friends why don't you have some fun. and don't worry about him, his old enough he can take care of himself. why don't you hang up/ or be with with friends enjoy. if he's completely over with his being childish he'll call you.
best way to to do, find yourself with other guy. he's too childish for you..
2006-11-10 17:20:22 · answer #3 · answered by vodka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No dont run from ur problems like this girl said cause they come back to bite u in ur ***. Instead inform him of the issue if he doesnt try to straighten his *** up leave him.
2006-11-10 17:15:07 · answer #4 · answered by Epidemic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's having way to much fun to work! You should RUN! As far away as you can get and change your #!!
2006-11-10 17:15:08 · answer #5 · answered by Carolyn T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should help him out without being a nag .... and instead supporting him... itll lift his spirits and will give him some hope to work n be successfull again
2006-11-10 17:14:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not even think about calling him again. I have one word for him- LOSER.
You need to get hold of yourself and forget this boy. Well, he certainly isn't a man.
2006-11-10 17:13:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
run and run faaaaaaaaaassssssssttttttttttttttttt!
2006-11-10 17:11:51 · answer #8 · answered by loveyouoshinystar 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋