I have this friend who's been seeing this guy for i think 9 months now. The thing is that her mom doesn't know about it. She suspects that they are but isn't to to sure about.She's 18 so she should be allowed to date by now. Her mom always asks her sister and then tries asking me random questions to, to see if it'll come out of one of us. What to do I'm so lost and I really don't want to get introuble with her mom for lying because we are like family. Please help!!!!????
2006-11-10 16:19:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I mean her mom is gonna have too find out sooner or later.
2006-11-10 16:28:37 · update #1
tell her to tell her mom. it isn't fair to you to have to lie like that.
2006-11-10 16:22:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your friend about the situation tell her how you dont like lieing to her mom about everything, and that you dont want to be involved with the consequences. Tell her you really like her mom, and are afraid she gonna never trust you for hiding it from her. Being that she is 18 she is old enough to make her own decisions, but if she still lives at home she has to abide by moms rules, or her mother can kick her out. So let her know all of this, and just tell her that you are her friend and will be there for her no matter what but u dont like lieing. good luck
2006-11-10 16:47:40 · answer #2 · answered by munchkin0430 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not tell her Mom that you don't want to be involved?
Be honest and straight forward. What can her Mom do to you apart from respecting you?
A friend is a friend is a friend.
2006-11-10 16:25:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might wanna tell your friend that her mom is asking YOU questions. Tell her you don't want to get in the middle of anything and if she's a true friend, she will do something about it.
2006-11-10 16:22:31 · answer #4 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to convince her to be honest with her mom. If she really wants to do what she is doing, she should be able to be honest about it and justify herself with her mom. This is a bad position for a friend to put you in. Explain how you feel and show her why it is best to be honest.
2006-11-10 16:26:01 · answer #5 · answered by 10timesalady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to ur friend and tell her to tell her mom and tell her you dont want to be involved
2006-11-10 16:22:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your friend how you feel a good friend won't put you in that situation
2006-11-10 16:23:19 · answer #7 · answered by space case 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be polite and say that her daughter should talk to her about this and not you. always smile and say thank you and you'll be alright :)
2006-11-10 16:23:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋