2006-11-10 16:16:39 · 13 answers · asked by J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That he is an idiot.
2006-11-10 16:20:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You make it sound like you had this formal "date" dinner planned and your man just brought his friend along....was it a formal date or were you just hangin out or getting a bite to eat or something somewhere?
He might not be in the dating mentality. I think dating would be more fun for like longer-term and married couples....as a way to get to know someone, formal dating is a horribly artificial, shallow and contrived environment to do it in!
2006-11-10 16:25:19 · answer #2 · answered by A Box of Signs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband says that he is insecure about himself and needs someone familar to start conversation. His comfort zone is in people he already knows and trusts, My husband's suggestion is to be a friend to him first and let it go from there. If he is nothing more than a friend then you have gained that. If it becomes more then it started out as a good friendship. which means it may be a longer lasting love relationship
2006-11-10 16:28:29 · answer #3 · answered by lita ozzy bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. It depends. Is this one of the FIRST dates??
If so, he may be too shy to be alone with you... who knows.
Maybe he wants to make it a casual date.
Maybe he also wants you to get to know his best friend and get acquianted with him as well.
My boyfriend brings his friends along when we hang out.
It's not a problem.
I take it as a compliment because he wants his friends to meet his girlfriend. : } Take it as a good sign.
If he's doing this a lot to the point where you don't have any alone time, let him know that.
2006-11-10 16:24:15 · answer #4 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's taking someone else along so he won't be so nervous and if the conversation or date doesn't go well he can always turn and talk to his friend to keep from being so nervous.
2006-11-10 16:22:18 · answer #5 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True friends share the pleasure in common.
Share the pleasure of friendship but regret the sex in common.
2006-11-10 16:32:14 · answer #6 · answered by thinkpose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he doesnt want to be alone with you that means he just wants to be your friend... i work with a bunch of guys and they tell me why they do certain things they do and say but hey all guys are different
2006-11-10 16:20:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either he wants to have a three some (ahem) Or he isn't that into you. Why don't you ask him what the deal is?
2006-11-10 16:21:42 · answer #8 · answered by Brown eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds awkward and out of place. I'd ask why, then move on form there.
2006-11-10 16:20:54 · answer #9 · answered by james m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think hes insecure about being with u n needs his buddy to support him
2006-11-10 16:20:30 · answer #10 · answered by mery b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means they have someone to talk about later.
2006-11-10 16:20:38 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋