What would you do if your child got pregnant????

Question

and did not want to nam names?? What would you do about the situation as a whole???

13+ yo...................

Answer 1

I would try not to blow a gasket and then I would sit them down and talk to them. Depending on how old they are, I'd ask why they had unprotected sex or why were they having sex to start with. I would ask what their plans are and try to be as supportive as possible. Usually when young girls make mistakes they already know they've messed up royaly. I'd be disappointed but at that point there's really nothing you can do.

Answer 2

well I would sit down with that child and explain the consequences of getting pregnant and explain the options that the child has... 1. Is to have the child and raise it. 2. Have the child and give it to a foster home to witch they would raise from birth and see the child if the foster parents say yes. 3. Is I would be as well asking her feelings and what the partner thinks of it as well. 4. Speak to the parents of the partner and see what there opion is on it as well and explain what I think would be in the best format for the children to do. If this was my mom she would say you layed in your bed and made it, you suffer the consequences and raise it. But I know times have changed, I would be very upset though cause I thought I braught my child up to know better then this and not to have unprotected sex with a boy, and also could be my fault I should have put her on birth control pills as well make sure she had condoms in her pursue I know I would not be helping the situation out but rather her be safe then sorry.

Answer 3

well if my child got pregnant I would try my best to stay calm. talk to her about the situation and let her know that i am there for her and always will be. also it depends on how old she is i mean if she is really young than i would suggest adoption so that her and her baby would have a good life. if she was older like between 16 and 18 i would let her decide what she wanted to do and i would try my hardest to stand by her and help her as much as i can. i mean how i look at it being mad and yelling at her is going to help it is going to make the whole situation bad and that isn't good.

Answer 4

If this is a case of her having sex against our wishes @ 13 she would have the child, and I or someone would adopt them. If she thinks she is adult enough to have sex then she will go through the pregnancy, but I will be dammed if she thinks she will then start playing mommy. Not a chance

If she was raped, or otherwise abused which resulted in her pregnancy, we would consider abortion, but would probably go the rout of adoption. Sins of the father don't carry down to the child.

Of course the girls health is the main concern. Should a pregnancy threaten her life, then I am OK with abortion.

Answer 5

with her age youd need to know not just who but how old cause if some one would find out what was going on.......if he was older he would be in jail no contact with the mother or child till she (the mother was 18) most states press charges......as far as she goes just be suportive...i was 18 when i got pregnant for my first child ( thinking about it now I understand why my parents were the way they were) my parents wanted me to abort the baby cause the guy was an a$$ and truns out they were right.......he left when she was 4 months old.......i dont believe in abortion of my own free will( diffrent story)....adoptions is an option but it a hard thing for a young person to deal with and if you think she is strong ehough to do it then it might be an opiton( i was not, i could not deal with the fact that i would have a baby out there somewhere) ......but if you are willing to work with her and be there when she needs to ( to an extent) then it will all work out( my mother and i fought and did not speak the first 6 months of my pregnancy and it was hell.....my daughter was also 5 weeks early)

Answer 6

I happen to have a son; but if I had a daughter, and she became pregnant and did not want to name the father, I would respect her wishes. I would do my best to be as supportive of her as I could, no matter what her decision was regarding the pregnancy or her decision to share information with me. I would hope that my caring about my child would never be contingent upon that child doing exactly what I would like or not.

Answer 7

Like any situation that my daughter would get into I would help her. I would help her raise the baby. I would not let her go out and party as she gets older but I would encourage her to finish school and go to a local college too. .

I would get her on birth control as soon as the baby was born.

Answer 8

I have one daughter but she's only 2 yrs old now...How I pray that this situation will not come into her during his adolescent stage because if it did, the guy who does this to her should hide to the farthest country he could think of because if I find him he will literaly forget his own name.

Answer 9

depends on the child age ...if its between the age of 10 and 13 I would seriously consider for her ( she will decide an abortion or not)...pass 14 she will be able to have enough brains to take care of a baby

Answer 10

my child? well I'd be shocked, then I'd phone the guiness book of records since they're boys haha.
but if i did have a girl i'd try to stay calm, i'd never turn my back on my own child and sooner or later when they were ready i'm sure i'd get a name out of them once they were sure i wouldn't go hunting the fellow down