I met a guy and we got along great but he looked at porn so much, everyday. He told me he didn't care if he never had sex, all he wanted was porn. He even said porn stars were not women, they were just porn stars. I stopped contacting him and told him why, but now I wonder if there are any "nice" guys out there who go to church and don't watch porn? Does every guy watch porn and is it unreasonable for a girl to want to date a guy who only focuses on her and not some of the demeaning acts committed by porn stars?
2006-11-10 16:11:26 · 20 answers · asked by ultra _ girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry, by 'go to church' I just mean generally good-hearted guys who like to do volunteer work, help people and animals....and not party and drink too much. Sorry I sound like such a nun LOL
2006-11-10 16:22:37 · update #1
Don't give up on us guys yet. You former BF is obviously so into porn that his judgement has been affected. It is an addiction. He is going to wake up one day soon and realize his life is a mess. To much porn affects all areas of ones life. So don't give up on trying to find a good guy. They are out there. You deserve better!!! You go girl!!
2006-11-10 16:25:14 · answer #1 · answered by Iceman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well truthfully that guy had some kind of problem. As for a guy who don't watch porn, there are some who don't but truthfully most guys watch porn from time to time. Not to the level of that guy (I don't think i know any guy who would chose porn over sex). Anyway don't worry too much I'm sure you'll find what your looking for, not all men are only looking for porn stars.
2006-11-10 16:18:40 · answer #2 · answered by SexyVixen255 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is my personal view as a guy, from what I know most guys have at 1 time or another in their life got curious & interested in looking at naked women especially during teenage years when their hormones are raging. &its common knowledge that many masturbate to porn. It becomes like an addiction to many men growing up, like smoking or even taking drugs. I personally met quite a few guys who are very religious, felt its very wrong but still cant help getting addicted to it. The pleasure that they get from looking & masturbating keeps playing with their mind. Although some don't admit to it, but many smokers & alcoholics also tell you they can stop smoking the next day if they want. But can they? There are guys that stop & those that get tempted from time to time. Everyone tells you relationship is not jsut about sex, but they forgot to recognized the large part sex takes in a reletionship. Unless the guy is a homosexual(no offense to anyone out there) he will be tempted to look at women's porn. His sexdrive is to that of a woman, thats why he dates women. I dont know what got you attracted to this guy in the 1st place or how come you are discussing porn issue with him, but maybe you should look at other qualitiesfrom other"nice"man which you may have overlook. With patience, you will surely find the man for you ;)
2006-11-10 16:41:04 · answer #3 · answered by helpful 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well most men do watch porn its something they just do . Yes there are some guys out there like mine that could care less about watching porn. When My fiancee and I first got together I use to be the one into porn and going to sex shops to get toys and other stuff. But he be so mad at me when I would do that and still has a problem with it so I just dont go.
2006-11-10 16:16:38 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are guys who dont watch porn, but that doesnt mean they are always angels either. Its not unreasonable to want to date a guy who doenst watch porn, but just bc he does watch pron doesnt make him a bad person. Most guys can watch porn without it becoming an addiction and understand there is a difference between what is shown in porn and what they do with their girlfriends.
2006-11-10 16:18:12 · answer #5 · answered by kitty10185 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh we exist. But most of us are never noticed because we arent the best looking guys in the room. Eventually, we are nice anymore. We change due to the fact that we are ignored most of our lives. I have never watched a porn. However, I am approaching 25 and have never had a sexual experience. So, it is starting to sound pretty inticing. I hope that helps some.
2006-11-10 16:17:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have met a few guys who haven't looked at porn, and liked them until the other guys I knew took them over. I'm sure there are some nice guys (my friend has met one, in fact. He went to church camp and looked like a punk, but listens to church music.. long story short, he was nice.)
you should know that one of the main reasons most people (not just guys (eew.)) look at porn is because they are either naive or curious.
well, that's my view, at least.
2006-11-10 16:16:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well i am guy and I don't watch porn. I can't understand why other guys want to look at it and not be able to touch it. A nice soft warm body is way better than watching or looking at it.
2006-11-10 16:20:16 · answer #8 · answered by spyder44052 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys likes porn bcuse some of them are hooked on women like how they scream or moan ,and some of them watch porn to see how to act with a girl in bed,and don't think just bcuse mens go to church that doeasnt mean they don't watch porn, remember even the pastors sexually molest little kids. so what makes u think mens that goes to church don't watch porn.don't confuse your self, there not that holy, not all men of "god" are created equal.
2006-11-10 16:24:34 · answer #9 · answered by x_x_andre_x_x 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't give up. There are guys out there who don't make porn their life. It may be kinda hard to find one that doesn't look at porn AT ALL though. My bf used to. But either he's real good at hiding it now, or he grew out of it cuz i don't find it anymore.
2006-11-10 16:16:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋