Theres this girl I love, but shes way older than me. I believe it could work out, if she wanted it to. The problem is shes dating someone in my family. I think about her all the time. Im in love with her. How do I control these feelings, so i don't do something i will regret.
2006-11-10 15:56:51 · 8 answers · asked by mark t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You just do it. Do not make a fool of yourself. Like you said, she's way older than you and she's with someone in your family. She is just a fantasy for you, keep it that way.
2006-11-10 16:01:05 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if u know the meaning of love then let me tell you one thing....
there's no age limitation for loving somebody. love is unconditional.
But as u have said she is dating with somebody else in ur family there's no way u can get her because its way difficult to change somebodys mind.
try to stick with her and always try to keep her smiling. but remember one thing u r still sacrificing urself against all ur feelings.
i dont want to suggest u to go and propose that girl as it will break all the suspense and all three will come into the picture.
and it might will become difficult for u to face each other in the near future.
if ur love is true do sacrifice urself as she is happy with somebody else.
and convince ur heart........
2006-11-11 00:32:24 · answer #2 · answered by viv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T LET THE AGE STOP YOU, MY GUY IS 23 YEARS YOUNGER THAN ME. WE HAVE BEEN HAPPY TOGETHER AND LIVE TOGETHER FOR THE LAST 2 AND 1/2 YRS. THE FACT THAT SHE IS IN A RELATIONSHIP IS THE ISSUE. WAITE TO SEE WHAT HAPPENS BETWEEN THEM AND THEN GO FOR IT. MAYBE SHE FEELS THE SAME ABOUT YOU. THIS IS THE BEST RELATIONSHIP I HAVE EVER BEEN IN. PEOPLE NEED TO LOOK OUTSIDE OF THE BOX. I WISH YOU LUCK. BUT DON'T BE THE ONE TO BREAK UP THE RELATIONSHIP OR THE ONE WITH YOU WILL BE DOOMED.
2006-11-11 00:37:14 · answer #3 · answered by openminded 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First think to yourself- Is she REALLY worth it all?
Second- If it is for some reason, my guess is that your not going to end up too happy. Since she's older she might just take it as a joke.
2006-11-11 00:33:53 · answer #4 · answered by qtpie16707 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude if you actually love her than just go forward and propose in Love age does not matter.
2006-11-11 00:01:07 · answer #5 · answered by Chingapo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's already dating someone in your family you need to move on. Try to find someone who's unattached.
2006-11-11 00:22:30 · answer #6 · answered by Nico 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea you dont wanna do te wrong thing so, just tell how you fell!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-11 01:20:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i am where u r
2006-11-11 00:18:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋