I like this gorgeous and amazing girl, and I really want to be with her more than anything in the world, the problem is she has a boyfriend and i'm in the 8th grade and I don't know if i'll have a chance to be with her. I feel like I can love her more than anyone else can, but I do want her to be happy, but I want to treat her with love and respect and to protect her and always be there for her. What do I do?
2006-11-10 15:56:40 · 17 answers · asked by Liquid Snake 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You will meet many amazing girls in your life if you treat them well.
2006-11-10 16:00:33 · answer #1 · answered by Nelson_DeVon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if this girl already has a girlfriend, that probably means she likes this guy, because if she really liked you, she would be with you, instead of this other guy. The guy she is with could treat her wonderful, and with respect also, and if she is happy with this guy, and you say you want her to be happy, then i would just try to move on because obviously, she is taken. You are in the eighth grade, you have ALL of high school and ALL of college, and im pretty sure, in a few months, this girl wont even matter. Trust me, there are thousands upon thousands of other girls out there that will want to be with you, and love and respect you, like you are trying to do to this girl that you like. Let her go,, if it is meant to be, she will be with you. I know it sounds "cliche" but its true. The best thing you can offer her right now, is your friendship because you sound like a good kid...kid..sorry im a freshman in college..my brother is in the eight grade so dont take offense. But yeah, just be her friend and maybe something, someday will come of it. Good luck, and dont stress on it, trust me, you'll get over it! Why dont you try telling this girl how you feel? Maybe she likes you too but doesnt think you feel the same. You never know, you might tell her how you feel and she might break up with her bf to be with you, you'll never know until you give it a shot. Good luck.
2006-11-11 00:03:12 · answer #2 · answered by Ricki M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships come and go quickly at this age. Treat her as a friend. Talk about stuff that is interesting to both of you. When you talk, listen a lot. Show interest in stuff about her.
DO NOT act like you are in love. Eventually when she tires of the old boy friend, you will be ready to go.
2006-11-11 00:01:51 · answer #3 · answered by ignoramus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey if your in the eigth grade forget about being able to love her more than anyone else. You are still a kid, enjoy it. You have your whole adult life to learn how to love and to know if you are being loved. Beautiful women come a dime a dozen. Give yourself some time.
2006-11-11 00:06:01 · answer #4 · answered by ltonyasfun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BE CAREFULyoung blood,you gotta understand that you,might really LIKE her,but don't rush LOVE will always stay the test of time.You gotta be careful girls in highschool can break hearts.If you care alot be a friend let her fall for you and she'll make the move.
2006-11-11 00:04:29 · answer #5 · answered by robert p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do exactly what u said. love her an respect her and protect her... if someones makin fun of her tell them to shut up... help her with any problem she may have... but whatever u do, dont be to obsessed. try not to follow her everywhere and always talk 2 her. i no it can be hard but girls need space... trust me its screwed me over a couple times... wait for them to break up... they wont last forever just be yourself and respect her... dont try to break them up though that will just piss her off
good luck
2006-11-11 00:01:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how you feel, if she says that she is happy with her current boyfriend then its just not the right time. by telling her, she'll at least know your interested. its a lot easier to end a relationship when you know there are other people interested
2006-11-11 00:05:39 · answer #7 · answered by aj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you told her that you like her, does she seam happy with her boyfriend or sad. You should just make a move but slowly.
Good Luck!
2006-11-11 00:01:38 · answer #8 · answered by Shelby Stale Chip 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has a boyfriend you are not in the running right now. Be friendly to her. Maybe in the future things will be different.
2006-11-11 00:01:12 · answer #9 · answered by peggy j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if someone is taken and happy u have no right to come between them..move on and aim for those girls that r single
2006-11-10 23:59:36 · answer #10 · answered by mery b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋