girl. He tells me its me who needs to change and he will take me back because its me he really wants.My question is should i try to show him that i have changed some of my ways will he is still seeing other people
2006-11-10 15:53:51 · 6 answers · asked by CUTIE 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, it has been my experience to not change yourself for the likes of another person. Mainly because once the changes are made, the other person is still going to find something to nit-pick about. I've been there and done that, and it just was not worth it. At the end of the day, you have to be happy and content with yourself, and if the other person really LOVES you, then he will be happy and content with who you are as well. If the things he suggests for you to change are things that you want to change for yourself and YOURSELF ONLY, then hey, go for it. BUT if the changes are for him and his own gratification, I say to hell with it. You deserve much more!!!
2006-11-10 17:39:57 · answer #1 · answered by swilkes8305 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The chance could still be there for you. But, my suggestion is not to change yourself if you think that is your way even though he asks for. You need to show a real you, then you will see if he really likes the type of person like you. If he insists on your changes, you may make a sigh and go away.
2006-11-11 00:05:13 · answer #2 · answered by Freewind 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen I know how it feels when your ex-boyfriend tells u that. The question u need to ask ur self is who fault was it that you'll broke up. did u do something, or did he do something. If u did something and if u really want him back than do what u have to do, but he may think he have some kind of control over u so think about that too!!! but if u really want him bsck than go for it. but make sure that you WANT to change yourself for him. hsd hr cheated on me, has he lied to me? are the questions u need ti ask ur self before u decide what u want to do, I know love hurts and I can tell u love u lovr him, but love can also be blind so think before u do anything as in changing who u r for him.
2006-11-11 00:14:15 · answer #3 · answered by Fallin out of Love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't change for him be yourself. sounds like he just want to see other people so don't change for him. you must first find peace with yourself and be satified with yourself. be yourself. change only if it makes your life better but dont change to keep someone in your life because the change will not last and then the same problems will arise. then what will you do you will be back in the same situration.
2006-11-11 00:17:45 · answer #4 · answered by sunshinebear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl listen to me DONT DO IT. this guy is a jerk who wants to control and minipulate you any way he can. if its you he really wants then why is it he wants to change you? please lose this zero and get yourself a hero. guys like this are total badness they make you do bad things and then you hate yourself in the morning for it. i dont care what sob story he has for you he is evil.
2006-11-11 00:01:01 · answer #5 · answered by n4il_p0lish2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you really love your boyfriend then get back with him.....but if you don't then maybe you should let it go..........
2006-11-11 00:10:22 · answer #6 · answered by avdenham 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋