I consider myself a nice guy, and because of this I find it hilarious that most girls claim they can' t find 'nice guys.' Why do girls have an innate need to be treated like crap. When a nice guy finally does come their way they blow him off, just want to be friends, or treat him like trash.
What message is this sending to good guys out there? That to get girls you need to treat them like trash.... Honestly...
2006-11-10 15:51:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u kno what the problem is? girls do want nice guys but when a guy says yes to everything and she can control him with the snap of her finger its a turn off, and most "nice guys" are like that, it just sends signals that the guy cant stand up for himself and if he cant do that then how is he suppose to protect the girl? yes, nice guys should remain nice but kno when to say yes and when to say no to certain situations.
2006-11-10 15:57:33 · answer #1 · answered by mery b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We don't LIKE to be treated like trash, that's just what happens most of the time. However! A lot of girls don't want a guy they can walk all over. You might be nice, but you also need to stand up for yourself and be confident. Some girls just end up with the wrong guys and don't know they deserve better.
2006-11-10 15:57:16 · answer #2 · answered by AD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i personally dont like to be treated that way at all. but i know what u mean and it definitly does send a bad message, i've noticed some nice guys try and give off a bad guy image in order to get a girl, even if that means treating a girl badly. guess ppl are just strange that way
2006-11-10 16:02:40 · answer #3 · answered by char 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Evolutionary psychology: Nice men don't take, rob, steal, or scam resources from other men, like mean men do.
It's the women and children of the women who benefit from these resources, thus making them more likely to survive.
Take any trait that makes someone more likely to survive or reproduce over several generations, and that trait usually becomes predominant in the population.
Hence, for a woman to feel like you're going to give her all the STUFF she deserves, you need to show her that you're not just some nice wimpy loser like you or me...
2006-11-10 15:58:53 · answer #4 · answered by A Box of Signs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say your age but when you all mature the girls who got the bad boys will see in hind sight that you were the better way to go. Hang in there, people can be ignorant and insulting and cruel and, the messages are out of whack. Don't take any of it personally and blow off their "games."
2006-11-10 16:11:12 · answer #5 · answered by Goldenrain 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a life man. the only girls who would do something like that are sluts. a guy treats me like trash and he is out of the relationship before he can say boo. normal women, like me, if i may say so myself, like a nice guy, but if the guy is to nice, we begin to feel weird, or think he has...ulterior motives.so, honestly, alot of us dont like being treated like trash
2006-11-10 16:02:07 · answer #6 · answered by ezzaphill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most women but not all think they can't get any better than to be treated like trash and unfortunately there are more that feel that way than the ones that don't
2006-11-10 16:01:32 · answer #7 · answered by sam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
interesting, i married a nice guy and i dont treat him like trash maybe you just haven't found the right girl.
2006-11-10 15:57:32 · answer #8 · answered by n4il_p0lish2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey Nice Guy,
i think iits half true...
But basically there is very few Nice guyz
Every guy needs to be a gentlemen and do
not make fun of girls...I think if Guys
give gals some respect it will be more better.
I think u have a wrong idea but hey this is
my opinion. <33 Well tty later.
From Nice Chica,
-Ria â¥â¥
2006-11-10 15:59:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The most common answer i see is that women find nice guys boring and weak...and bad guys are dominant and exciting .
2006-11-10 15:55:57 · answer #10 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋