I thought this guy might like me he always smiled at me differently than he did to my friends, and so I told him I liked him and he said he didn't want a relationship at the moment. I thought okay he doesn't like me I'll just try to be friends with him. Didn't see him much for next few months but when I did he seemed sort of scared by me. He started talking to me the other day and was smiling at me really big, he seemed really happy to see me. When just two weeks ago all I got from him was hi. Why the sudden change? What does this mean?
Thanks in advance
2006-11-10 15:48:33 · 7 answers · asked by lil 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It may be like the time when a man's female child suddenly becomes attractive to his eye, smell or touch. It happens to most most fathers, I believe. Some men just don't know how to react to this and push their daughter away from fear of themselves. It scares them and they begin thinking wried thoughts about themselves.
Your friend maybe afraid of you. After all, social phobia is the most common form of mental health problems in America. Social Phobia is being scared of people. It can be of one type of people, like anyone who is attractive to them.
It is a strange world we live in, and you asked a good question. Thank-you.
2006-11-10 15:58:08 · answer #1 · answered by zclifton2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the suitable component of do is to ask her. what's the worst that should take place? There are 3 opportunities. #a million She likes you and that's her way of showing it (each so often that is mine, too), #2 She's heard an offensive rumor approximately you from somebody and he or she have been given pissed, #3 She become attempting to flirt with you a technique or the different and once you probably did not observe and respond, she have been given mad
2016-11-23 15:07:20 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your description gives the impression that he is afraid of his own feelings, whatever they are. People who are insecure like this are usually both unable to describe how they feel adequately to others, and they tend towards wishy-washy or unpredictable behavior. Problem here is, regardless of his other good qualities, and no matter how much you like him already, he probably doesn't have the confidence needed to be a good boyfriend. Your best bet is to continue to be casual friends with him, and to not pursue anything more intimate.
2006-11-10 15:55:19 · answer #3 · answered by chuck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop trying to read too much into his 'hello'. He knows how you feel. If he has changed his mind, he needs to make the first step this time around.
2006-11-10 15:51:54 · answer #4 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He missed u during the intervening period.
2006-11-10 15:51:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means nothing, beleive me...its just good to c a simular face after a while...
2006-11-10 15:51:51 · answer #6 · answered by mery b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That he is single again
2006-11-10 15:51:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋