ok here is the story. I started talking 2 this guy about 2 mons ago. we talked everyday and the conversations were good. We were both very honest about things we wanted out of a relationship. We got along really well so we decided to meet to see if the attraction was also as good in person which it was . so now we both felt this had good possibilities. Then we were intimate but to my surprise we continued to talk everyday, even though due to both of our sched. we couldnt get together all that often. Which we both understood the situation. Then we talked on a sunday evening same good convers. and Now its been 3 weeks since we last talked and i've only rec 1 email in that time. So yesterday I emailed him and told him that it was almost a month and asked him whats really going on because i know its more than work and that unless i hear from him ,I wont be calling him because it feels to wierd to cont like this with no respone from him. MY question .. . putting it out there good idea???
2006-11-10 15:43:09 · 8 answers · asked by peachy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you did the right thing. Why should you be led on by anyone? You are proving to him and yourself that you are too good to be just hangin around for some guy. You're telling him that your relationship with him needs to have more communication. You're not asking him to see you every day or call you every day because you both have hectic schedules. But for it to be almost a month, you don't know if he's seeing other girls on the side and leading you on. You are sticking up for yourself and that is what matters. Good for you. Keep on defending yourself and don't let anyone take advantage of you or step all over your heart. If he really is the right guy for you, he'd be trying to contact you. That's my opinion. Good luck, and don't stop looking around. Always have your eyes open for the right fish to swim up to you :)
xoxo good luck
Angela
2006-11-10 15:50:27 · answer #1 · answered by Angela 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it's the only way to get closure. Sounds like it's over for him. It only takes a second to email someone just to touch base...
putting it out there at least gets it said and off your chest...and unless he's been in a coma, he didn't have any excuse not to contact you if he was still interested...but don't get your hopes up.
:(
2006-11-10 23:55:14 · answer #2 · answered by suziq 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't have even gone that far, but thats just me, if i had only gotten one response after 3 weeks i would just forget he ever existed. guys like that are on the net for one thing, use them and then lose them.
2006-11-10 23:53:33 · answer #3 · answered by n4il_p0lish2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! Makes sense to me~go for it!!
2006-11-10 23:51:46 · answer #4 · answered by Donna J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he was a hit-and-run guy. make a relationship and doesn't make a commitment.
so yes, PUT IT OUT THERE LIKE NO ONE HAS EVER PUT IT OUT THERE BEFORE!!
lol :]
2006-11-10 23:53:12 · answer #5 · answered by Miss Q&A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes done a runner on you ,
basically you slept with him way too soon,
no chase no interest
2006-11-10 23:49:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
good luck and smile big even though it hurts
2006-11-10 23:53:50 · answer #7 · answered by Shorty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
........you were right to take that action, but the guy was simply a 2 timer,. unfortunately!....
2006-11-10 23:55:18 · answer #8 · answered by peanut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋