Should I call her or go see her?

Question

I haven't talked to my mother for about a year and a half. We had a falling out because she betrayed me and was trying to turn my husband and I against each other and she was trying to do the same w/my siblings. I fell like my mother is suppose to help us stay together and keep our family strong.
Well this week she was admitted into the hospital because she was having problems breathing and my oldest sister called to tell me, my oldest sister is 2 out of 5 of us that still talks to her. It turns out that she may of had a heart attack.
Anyways I don't really feel like talking to her, but what if...
She hasn't tried to call or see me..who goes that long w/o talking to her children??
What should I do?

Answer 1

I just lost my little brother & I can't tell you how devastating it was for me; I've never experienced anything like it. Lucky 4 me we were on good terms. You need 2 go & see yur mom (or call her) cause u never know when God's going 2 call either of u home & how're u going 2 feel if he does & u never got 2 say goodbye 1 last time, or that u loved her 1 last time u know? I know she hurt u & u obviously need to sit down (if that's possible) & let her know that u truly feel betrayed by her actions & that she's yur mother & u need support & love from yur mother & explain 2 her that u don't want 2 go through life without talking 2 her because anything can happen at any time & u don't want 2 someday find out (or have her find out) that u can't talk to eachother EVER again because God called 1 of u home & neither 1 of u got 2 say goodbye or I luv u. It's sad that family can help u &/or hurt u the worst & trust me I've had my share of family betrayals but I know first hand that u feel like **** if u cant say bye or luv u & God takes that person (especially somebody so close) away...sorry to hear that so many problems between u & yur mom...good luk & God bless.