My fiancee and I just moved in together in toward the end of May. Everything was awesome.. we would talk all of the time, hang out, do stuff together.. But now it seems that he is always tired. We come home from work around the same time, and then we eat dinner and then he wants to go to bed. This is pretty much every night. It is so boring, we dont do anything fun anymore.. we hardly even talk that much.. besides the "how was your day" talk. I know he isnt cheating on me.. he doesnt have time to, because hes a mechanic and hes always at work and then comes right home to me. I have no doubt at all about this. I am scared to talk to him about it, cuz sometimes he throws little "hissy fits" when I talk to him.. but other times, he is fine with it. I just want the fun put back into our relationship, I wanna be able to talk and go out to dinner sometimes, and do stuff together like we used to. It just seems that hes always tired or "sore" and doesnt wanna do anything fun anymore. I'm bored
2006-11-10 15:15:54 · 5 answers · asked by Stepherz 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
try planning something with him a few times a week or at least when he's off, maybe go on a pretend vacation on the weekend and get a nice room , at the days inn they usually have some nice hot tub rooms, try to work with him if he works alot, but at least try to fit time in for the both of u, whether it be dinner, a shower, tv anything is better then nothing
2006-11-10 15:20:36 · answer #1 · answered by harmonieclark 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well you have to tell him straight up how you feel who cares if he throws little hissy fits like you said, hes a grown man isnt he? You need to talk to him about it, stand up for your relationship i mean common you guys arent even married yet image when you are, you have to tell him if you really want to have a great loving relationship.*
2006-11-10 23:29:03 · answer #2 · answered by abelssexywifey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The "honeymoon" period is over. After you live with someone, things always change. Try to talk to him about setting out one night a week to go out together for dinner or something.
2006-11-10 23:20:53 · answer #3 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two words "Victoria's Secret" put on a show for him and I guarantee you want be bored and he will forget all about being tired nd sore.
2006-11-10 23:35:35 · answer #4 · answered by H Town Girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to him about it and tell him how you feel but make sure he is in a good mood first so you know he doesn't throw a hissy fit that i shte only way he will know how you feel and you will know how he feels is by talking
2006-11-10 23:24:26 · answer #5 · answered by sam 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋