According to stereotypes, women are obsessed with love and have a great deal of trouble finding men who are willing to commit. Granted, I don't know too many guys who watch love stories (let's face it, love is marvellous to experience and just plain silly to watch), but when it comes to real life, they don't hold back. In my experience, men are in a hurry to say 'I love you' - always before I know if I feel the same. I won't pretend I'm of perfect virtue, so I know it's not to get me into bed. Is it that sensitive new age guys feel like they have to say it, or is it just something special about me?
2006-11-10 15:15:38 · 13 answers · asked by The Mad Shillelagh 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sure I indirectly made the point that they got laid before they said it, so 'they want to get into your pants' becomes an irrelevant answer.
2006-11-10 15:30:34 · update #1
Look i admit i try to rush things sometimes, mainly because it just seems like the right thing to say at the time, yes we want to make u feel special, but i would have to say, in a sense they do love u. Like u said alot of new age guys dont hold back, they love u enough to say they love u. (Understood that sex isnt the driving factor.) Some women ask that question on purpose to trip up guys, happened to me, made the mistake wont do it again. Anyway, i love that description u gave about love, and i just want to believe in love at first sight, and guys think to much anyway, but often they stress out over u. Alot believe me. I would have to say that oral sex and hugging for a long consistent time without sex would be a help and an indicating factor of true love, if i can just land that courtesy kiss and a hugg i would hope that its taken in and judged and loved. Good luck.
2006-11-10 15:28:58 · answer #1 · answered by the sponge 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes right id say i love your feet if that got the wussy and id praise your style in tartan to get the wang dang doodle and id love your jovan musk perfume to yabba dabba doo you so men are trash and animals with one ambition followed by food and sleep we want to reproduce with anyone able to ovulate and are ready too at the drop of a hat or a panty
2006-11-10 23:22:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men usually mean exactly that, and yes, they're all in a hurry. Its the instinctive drive to find a mate.
2006-11-10 23:21:27 · answer #3 · answered by relaxed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably the men give expression to their feelings earlier than the opposite sex. Besides the physical love, women probably look around for more mundane things before giving vent to their feelings.
2006-11-10 23:23:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Men have learned early on that by say I love u, they
get what they want from women, we need to set men
straight, but too many women are insecure with themselves.
2006-11-10 23:30:59 · answer #5 · answered by Nanniekc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men say I love you,because they love the woman indeed.Other say that,because they want to trap the woman,and have sex as soon as possible.Good question.
2006-11-10 23:23:49 · answer #6 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because Men are stupid and are just trying to get in ur pants.
2006-11-10 23:19:22 · answer #7 · answered by locasarai80 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I agree with the first answer.
2006-11-10 23:29:56 · answer #8 · answered by googlemeatyahoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's face it ! You're special! I love you.
2006-11-10 23:22:30 · answer #9 · answered by million$gon 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont know your sign so rough to say..after 30 days if you dont return those feelings you can break it off....
2006-11-10 23:19:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋