He's great guy but we only get to see each other twice a month due to work and family obligations. Neither one of us has mentioned a commitment. I don't see myself as a big priority in his life eventhough he really likes me and would do anything for me. I am not used to someone so distant emotionally. Is it time to move on? See who else is out there?
2006-11-10 14:36:07 · 8 answers · asked by whrldpz 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do what you think is right if it doesnt matter to you that you only get to see him a few times then stay wit him but if you feel it is only getting harder than move on. If you dont do what you think is right your not only hurting him but your hurting the both of you
2006-11-10 15:11:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since you said neither of you has made the effort to make it a committed relationship I see no harm in seeing others. You are dating this man. You only see him twice in a month keep him as a good friend because thats all it seems to be with you. You only have a few true friends he might be one of them.
2006-11-10 14:41:17 · answer #2 · answered by justturning40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is distant emotionally now, it can only get worse.
It's actually quite observant of you to notice that. I have always felt that if my partner was "not all there" emotionally, it was a bad sign... over time, I learned I was right & to trust my instincts.
Being a man, I have to say that I have found myself drifting once or twice. Again, I knew at that point it was time to end things.
Good luck to you...
< peace >
2006-11-10 14:52:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say yes, if things are meant to be then they will be, but don't wait around when time right now will just not allow for you two to be together.
2006-11-10 15:09:26 · answer #4 · answered by shay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should stay and express more how you feel about him... but if he sees you less and less and you sense that distance is forming between you too... I suggest you move on.
2006-11-10 14:51:52 · answer #5 · answered by hyperkick05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes its time to move on and see who else is out there
2006-11-10 15:38:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel like you really love him them stay with him, but if you do stay with him then you need to tell him your concerns. You should probably tell him your concerns and worries anyway, but it is only really needed if you stay with him.
2006-11-10 14:40:36 · answer #7 · answered by Victoria 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either move on, or make the committment. Which is more important to you?
2006-11-10 14:40:43 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋