I'm 26 and this 18 year old girl I met in a club (don't know how she got in) has text me several times after that night. I was kinda bored so I asked if she wanted to see a movie, she said : sorry Im not interested in you like that ?????? I'm not interested in her like that! What the hell... I've erased her phone number like I should have done in the first place but still can't make sence of it...can you?
2006-11-10 14:22:49 · 33 answers · asked by Joey B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't let the ego hit get you fired up. I think it would be common for an 18 year old to misinterpret what you were saying. She just wanted to be straight forward with you so she wasn't leading you on. Relax!
2006-11-10 14:28:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it were me and I was in your shoes being the guy I would say the hell with her and find someone else. I think that she was thinking that you wanted a relationship with her and she took it the wrong way so I thnk that if she text's you again or anything like that I would let her know that that is not what you wanted
2006-11-10 14:27:21 · answer #2 · answered by angeleyes011805 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like she was just playing. She liked the idea of a "text" relationship but when it comes to a date or something- she is either scared or otherwise involved..or who knows what *LOL* Too many young people read too much into just going out to see a movie or going for coffee. no telling what she was being so weird about- just forget it.
2006-11-10 14:27:59 · answer #3 · answered by dances with cats 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK...I'm a chick and plain and simple..this chick is lame first of all..and second was only talking to you becuase she thought that you could hook her somehow..booze..getting in the club ..whatever...she is lame and you should have erased her number in the first place. And sweetie why are you a 26 year old talking to a 18 year old girl..come on now!!!!!!!!
2006-11-10 14:27:06 · answer #4 · answered by femmefatalefeline 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you are truly not interested in her, then just forget about the whole thing altogether. Call her an immature prick tease and be done with it. Next time, watch out for kiddies in clubs playing grown up.
2006-11-10 14:28:58 · answer #5 · answered by Decadent Musings06 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She behaved exactly as a girl that age would. Fickle and really just wanting company. Girls and guys should be abled to just hang without always worrying about the sex thing, but the trouble is...it requires great communication and maturity.
2006-11-10 14:28:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guy like u should not go out with an 18 year old girl that is wrong an u know that and why would u asked her that if is want grow to the movies u do not know her at all ?
guy should hvae some respects for the ladies & girlfriend
2006-11-10 14:28:13 · answer #7 · answered by diamondcole25 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok dis gurl is immature, how the hell is she gonna b texting u (like showing interest) n dan dizz u like dat what the hell??
learned lesson: if u aint interested ina gurl dont invite her to the moviez (the movies is the typical first date, which shows other intentions rather dan friendship or the im bored mood)
2006-11-10 14:27:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consider the age and immaturity level. Definitely erase the number and don't answer her texts....that's just drama waiting to happen.
2006-11-10 14:25:29 · answer #9 · answered by totalstressor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you meet a single girl in a club that's looking for a guy she is probably a skank. She probably saw a big bill in your wallet and decided she wants a new louis vuitton purse :)
2006-11-10 14:26:24 · answer #10 · answered by Wocka wocka 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋