he wasnt there durin my pregnancy but decided to be a father after she was born. anyway i was crazy about him before he left me and after months of not communicating with him i thought my feelings would minimize. when i saw him again i realized they are even stronger. i want to tell him because i want to be with him but im not sure if he feels the same as i do. there are no signs that he does. he is just cordial to me. we did kiss but i don't think it meant anything to him. i love him so much. so what im asking is should i tell him or not?
2006-11-10 14:16:20 · 7 answers · asked by Jackie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You do not know what love is. You are desperate to be loved, join the line / queue, you need schooling and an education, you need to earn some self respect and self worth, so now what are you to do, scrape the bottom of the barrel and use emotional blackmail to "force" him to stay and be responsible. Mmmm. I feel for you, you obviously had little or no parental guidance. You are not either going to have to learn the hard way or make endless excuses and exist instead of live, I hope you take the harder yet more positive route, if you do you shall have a life worth living, you and your baby will know how to laugh and smile. It's a big if, from what I've read.
2006-11-10 14:38:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a titter of wit. The guy got you pregnant .. gets offside and then comes back to you. He sound like an immature kid. Find yourself a man who is prepared to accept your child as his. You might even meet a guy about your own age who is a widower with a young child to rear on his own. It's your life though. You are the one who has to make the final decision and you'll get a lot of bad advice as well as some good. Good luck to you whatever you decide. I hope it all works out OK.
2006-11-10 14:46:16 · answer #2 · answered by Christopher P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it easy with him.............no pressure
I would just let him see what a great mum you are making and let him join in, then hopefully things will naturally progress....
He obviously got spooked and you don't want it happening again, just have fun and try and enjoy every mile stone of your babies life together with no pressure then he will see what he is missing out on
good luck love xxx
2006-11-10 15:36:11 · answer #3 · answered by xXx Orange Breezer xXx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him, tell him how you feel about him, it could be that he feels the same way but thinks you don't feel anything for him, so Why don't you try?
2006-11-10 14:29:55 · answer #4 · answered by unknown 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow this guy sounds amazing. Its obvious he wants to be with you, go for it!!
2006-11-10 14:20:50 · answer #5 · answered by ugly little hate machine 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
do something & try to show him that u
really love him
2006-11-10 14:25:32 · answer #6 · answered by 1111 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok.
2006-11-10 14:20:07 · answer #7 · answered by Interested Fish 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋