i am less confident because i broke up with my girl like a year and 2 months ago?

Answer 1

You broke up with her and that makes you less confident? That is such a long time ago and anyway it is usually the one that gets dumped not the dumper that looses confidence. Get yourself another girlfriend and move on with your life, you will be much happier if you forget about it. Whatever will you do if you get dumped? If you get a grip on life you will be much happier. █