My fiance hurts himself when he gets mad? Does anyone know what thats called medically?

Question

i have a fiance that is in jail and will be goin to prison for like four years i keep it very truthful with him yet i am very faithful. But when i tell him things he gets pissed he has an anger problem and it was a problem i told him it was becoming a problem in our relationship so he dealt with but now he has started to hurt himself instead of yelling at me over the phone because he knows i don't like it. i would like to know what it is called when people hurt themselves when they are mad, i want to help him because he is the guy i want to be with forever please help?

Answer 1

Many people who are unsure of themselves and their relationship with others do this,some cut themselves,some even commit suicide.Your friend needs anger management and a good therapist.Good luck to you and the one you love.

Answer 2

If you marry this guy, he will end up hurting or killing you. Best to run away and never look back. I am sure an intelligent person like you sound can do one hell of a lot better.

Answer 3

It's called self injury [ SI ].It is part of a medical problem .I can see how frustrated he must be since he is locked up.

You can ask him to get some help in Jail.

Good luck

Answer 4

It could be anything from acting out, to bipolar, to depression. He needs to go see a doctor, or talk to a therapist. It isn't healthy at all.

Answer 5

It's one of the personality disorders

Answer 6

you call that rage;;he needs to get some mental health..those are the kind of guys that will kill you then kill himself.. please these are warning signals... i had a guy that used to smash his head when he got mad... he ended up killing his wife over dinner' was cold ',,,, .good-luck