usually when i get really really mad i begin to cry.
not crying cuz im sad or a cry baby, but i get so fumed i have to release anger through crying. lol
does anyone else do this too?
serious, lol
2006-11-10 13:06:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
yea, like if i get really mad, and i dont say anything like scream or whatever ill just start to get teary eyed, and my mom is like, dont start crying now.
i just cant help it you know?
2006-11-10 13:12:16 · update #1
Yes. That started happening to me more once I started to try to control my "temper". I use to blow up with rage when someone made me angry in the past. I became very violent with my mom and boyfriends. When I started having more control over that, I found that I would immediately start to cry if I didn't freak out and start screaming instead. I'm not sure why it worked out that way. I think that for me, it means I obviously still don't know how to deal 'properly' with my anger. People now think I'm crying to get attention or to manipulate them. It's hard to explain that I think it's better than trying to stab them! I would like to change it though.
2006-11-10 14:06:08 · answer #1 · answered by Pico 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most likely reason why is that your neural brain activity can't handle the electrons/messages being sent through rapidly out of your anger, and/or you're mentally weak(Not referring to unstable, just incapable to acknowledge personal problems)and your most self-reliant reaction to most situations is depressive.
What you are currently 'feeling' is more of an emotion, than a feel. The solution is to try to combat the feeling of anger and try to coop with yourself, in other substantive words, relocate your self and stay calm, breathe(If necessary), and don't tense up.
2006-11-10 13:19:50 · answer #2 · answered by andy14darock 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I've had it happen. The first time, I was 16 and arguing with a friend. She then started laughing at me for it, which didn't help. It took me years to figure out what had happened. Now, I start deep breathing way before I get to that point and it prevents it.
2006-11-10 14:19:56 · answer #3 · answered by phaig93 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being mad is an expression of emotions. You are like a lot of people, you way of releasing your emotions is to cry.
Me personally, if I get to that point. Usually I am ticked off pretty, and and tend to turn violent.
2006-11-10 14:20:16 · answer #4 · answered by Dwayne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it happens 2 a lot of peaple
2006-11-10 13:10:14 · answer #5 · answered by Moochie Bean! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THOUGHT ONLY I DID IT
EITHER I CYR OR I SCREAM LIKE MAD GOSH!! I DO BLOW UP MY FUSE SOME TIMES
I M TOO SHORT TEMPERED
2006-11-10 23:32:30 · answer #6 · answered by kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i'm like that too. i'm not a cry baby and it surprises me that i'm cry
2006-11-10 13:10:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes.. i do... not every time but when i get really angry usually because someone hurt someone that i love
2006-11-10 13:10:51 · answer #8 · answered by sweetsal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same here.
2006-11-10 13:10:25 · answer #9 · answered by kippie2525 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's healthy rather than exploding.
2006-11-10 14:41:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋