I love my girlfriend with all my heart but in the two years we've been together she broke up with me about 4 or 5 times. usally a week or two but one time it was about a month. I stopped buying her things because i was afriad of wasting my money if she was just gonna break up with me again and i told her that. She just broke up with me again and we are currently not together. i've thought many times about killing myself thinking i can't go on without her. it just kills me inside every second of the day. She said our relationship has been fine and we've been getting closer the last few months and can't understand why i still dont buy her alot of things. I don't know what i should do here. If i should try to get with her again and make things right or let it burn and move on. we both lost our virginity to each other and always thought we would be married. What Should I Do???
2006-11-10 13:02:35 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Man stop letting that woman punk you. Use your back bone. Move on and find someone who will love and respect you for you. No one should be treated the way she has treated you. It's to many single women out here looking for good men and your girlfriend is not gonna realize what she had until she sees you with someone else. Turn the tables on her and dust the cob webs off your players card. You are single now and fair game, may the best woman win.
2006-11-10 13:16:40 · answer #1 · answered by H Town Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very clear to me, why don't you start rebuilding your life? It will be hard cause it appears you are head over heals for this gal, but I don't think she is the right person for you. I think maybe you have smothered her with too many gifts and she is not showing you any respect. You can respect yourself and move on! Keep busy, hang out with friends but do something to get your mind off this person. I hate to say this again but people have to be comfortable with themselves and have self esteem. Sometimes when a relationship is not working it is time to spend some quality time with yourself. Meditate and look back at what the relationship was and wasn't...there are so many others who will appreciate who you are and you will wonder why on earth did you not see it earlier. You may be surprised that this gal don't coming running back to you and see what she has been missing. You must show respect but also demand the same for yourself!
2006-11-10 13:18:38 · answer #2 · answered by constanceray 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your girlfriend is wondering why you aren't buying her things then maybe its time to find a new girlfriend. To kill yourself over a female? She ain't worth it! There are so many women out there! I definitly think that you need to start looking else were. I know it probably feels like you'll never get over her but, that too shall pass! To be in a relationship and always feel like you don't know when the next break-up will be is a waste of your life!
2006-11-10 13:09:19 · answer #3 · answered by jme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont take her back next time. She's just toying with your heart and you are better than that. Yes it is going to hurt because you feel that u cant live without her, but you'll get over it. Stop letting her make a fool out of you. There is a woman out there who is way better than your girlfriend, and is going to treat u much better. It sounds like your girlfriend doesnt appreciate your love.
2006-11-10 13:07:20 · answer #4 · answered by yogurlmsbunny 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
look at the clues she gave you she said you should buy her a lot of things you got your self a gold digger and every time she broke up with you you brought her some thing so she only wants the gifts not your love move on no run will fast and don't look back cause she is selfish you haven't lost ant thing but a gold digger good luck
2006-11-10 13:12:04 · answer #5 · answered by poda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, if your not able to keep a steady relationship now, how are you going to be able to stay engaged or even married in the future? Divorce is very expensive I hear. And if she really loved you and cared about you, she would stay with you and try to work out your differences together without 'taking time apart'.
2006-11-10 13:09:28 · answer #6 · answered by chevygirl6767 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know the whole story, but aren't you tired of this? Give her an ultimatim and see what she does with it. If she doesn't stop asking you for stuff and doesn't quit breaking up with you, you're not going to go back to her, NOR are you going to hurt yourself. You're going to be a self respecting man and live a happy, calm, undramatic, and wealthier life without her. I'm not kidding.
2006-11-11 11:50:43 · answer #7 · answered by *babydoll* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she doesnt feel the same about you, so dont waste your time on her anymore. You deserve to find someone that will love you as much as you love the,. She honestly seems like you just using you to get free gifts. Lose her
2006-11-10 13:08:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her no more baby you made your bed now sleep in it. Sounds like she just wants gifts. And as long as you don't buy em she gonna keep dumping you. And hun no one is worth killing your self over.
2006-11-10 14:45:14 · answer #9 · answered by mommys_girl1234 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just dont take her back..or...you break up with her and move on to better things. Someone out there will treat u right!!
2006-11-10 13:08:15 · answer #10 · answered by Cassie1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋