I've never been in a long term relationship, and I don't really have the need to be in one. Im kind of a recluse, I like hanging with people, but at the end of the day all I want is to essentially be by myself and reflect and unwind, whether that is playing guitar or video games or going for a bike ride. I know women expect more out of a relationship, and I am going on a date with this woman who I know really likes me, and I like hanging out with her, I just don't know if I want to be in a relationship, mostly because of the time and energy you have to put in. What should I do? Should I give it a shot? If not, how should I tell her I really like her, but I just don't want anything more serious?
2006-11-10 12:56:51 · 3 answers · asked by tonylambiris 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her what you just said on here. Honesty is always best.
2006-11-10 13:02:26 · answer #1 · answered by hummingbird 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tonylambi,
Honesty is the best policy in cases like this. If she's half the woman you say she is I think she would understand completely. You can never go wrong telling the truth.
TDCWH
2006-11-10 13:05:03 · answer #2 · answered by TDCWH 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should just be honest with her and tell her that you are not ready for a serious relationship and that you can hang out when ever and let just see what happen and i think she will understand or move on good luck
2006-11-10 13:05:26 · answer #3 · answered by poda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋