2006-11-10 12:56:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, so it's not exactaly normal, but there is a logical explanation. Most likely you and your current boyfriend are having some issues, or you're just having some doubts, and so you're starting to look at other guys. It happens to all of us when our relationships hit a rocky point. First, figure out what the problem is and work in it (if this relationship is worth it) and you should stop noticing other guys.
2006-11-10 13:02:02 · answer #1 · answered by lilgiggle33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes although it's not exactly the best thing to do to the person you are currently with. BUT most people have this happen anyways. IF the crush is strong end the relationship now if you know the person you have a crush on is nice and feels the same way. Just don't ruin both of your lifes {you and your boyfriend} by ending it for know reason. hope this helps! :)
2006-11-10 13:01:50 · answer #2 · answered by fashiongrl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you're in a healthy, happy relationship then no!!! It's normal to be attracted to someone else, of course in that respect we are all human. But if you're truly happy with who you're with and have such strong feelings I don't believe you would be crushing on someone else. Maybe you're mistaking a crush for what it may really be is lust. You're so attracted to this person you feel like you like them. But it's nothing more then this unless you really aren't as happy in your relationship as you think you're. Maybe you need to re-examine your life, what you want and if what you have is really what you want. If it's lust then this to needs to be forgotten and you need to stay away from this person!!! Good Luck!!!
2006-11-10 13:05:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think so, I had a big crush on this guy and now when I see him it comes back. I've been w/ my boyfriend for 9 years and have 2 kids.
2006-11-10 13:00:57 · answer #4 · answered by traci s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure it is, just as long as it is harmless and not something that really threatens the good thing you have. I love my wife and would never stray but there are a lot of good looking women at my office and I am still aware of that! I am nicer to them, go out of my way to help them out, that kind of a thing... I am a bit smitten, but it is not serious and they certainly don't flirt with me or anything... just harmless attraction on my part.
2006-11-10 13:02:20 · answer #5 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, doll, but look for those qualities in your mate not someone else, dont be like toucan sam and follow your nose away from reality. Just really dig in and find them in your mate. They are there.
2006-11-10 13:01:45 · answer #6 · answered by fan_wan :-) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AS LONG AS IT DOESNT GO PAST THE CRUSH PART AND U DONT ACT ON IT. ITS HAPPEND TO ME B4. IF U DONT ACT ON IT THEN NOTHING WRONG BUT IF U DO THEN THERE S A PROBLEM. I HAVE TH PHILOSOPHY WHAT THE EYES CANT SEE THE HEART CANT FEEL.
2006-11-10 13:01:23 · answer #7 · answered by smiley283 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how big the chrush is.If it is just a little tiny puppy love chrush then yes but if it is big then no.
2006-11-10 13:03:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is normal as long as you don't cheat and it doesn't happen that often.
We are only human.
2006-11-10 12:59:48 · answer #9 · answered by armywifehaney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not a good thing!!!!!!!!!!!! that could spell TROUBLE!
You should work on getting over the crush!
2006-11-10 13:00:21 · answer #10 · answered by hummingbird 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋