(My opinion: Yes, I think so, My husband is perfect for me and I love him very much. He can actually complete my sentences, that is how close we are)
2006-11-10 12:38:01 · 12 answers · asked by . 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
(Ps. I do believe there is such a person, and I found him my husband for me, But you do have to work at it... IS NOT MAGIC or anything, is just working at it to make it perfect :)
2006-11-10 12:58:00 · update #1
I really don't have an answer to your question but am answering because I see the regular morons are in here too...
"Divorce cases are high in the world..."
The Western world does not constitute the world so let us not be xenophobic. Asian culture as well as African continent has the lowest divorce rates and its NOT because the woman does not have the guts to stand up to her husband. Its because they are happy together.
As sister Muslimah said, once you've found that special person, you have to work at making it succeed. It won't work all by itself.
2006-11-10 16:58:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. We can be close and have that feeling with anybody if you love them enough and get to know them enough.
The idea of a soul mate rests on the idiotic notion that you will only be ultimately happy with just 1 such person specially created for you. Men and women are meant to be together but the fact is we do clash after we come together. There is no such thing as a perfect marriage or perfect relationship. After 2-3 years that puppy love people have for each other wears off and reality sets in. After that happens, you find out just how strong your marriage really is. (if it lasted that long) If people are marrying because they think it is going to make them happy theyre in for a huge shock. Marriage and children bring joys not question but they also bring a ton of work and heartache. Marriage doesnt make your life better, just more complicated!
True joy and fullfillment unfortunately is not attained through marriage or any sort of pursuing the opposite sex. True joy and fullfillment come from having faith in God and only he can give your life meaning and purpose.
2006-11-10 13:00:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately no-it is all by chance and luck.If that were the case
there would be no such thing as a single person(unless you are
by choice)or dating websites and services.Some people choose
to be single(some by profession)others just fall through lifes cracks and end up that way even though they do not want to be
single.
So if someone tells you that there is someone for everyone think
twice before believeling it and most importantly remember how very lucky and blessed you are to have someone by your side and in your life.
2006-11-10 12:54:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that God created a perfect half for each of us, otherwise how can we explain those who seem happy with single blessedness, who feel their life is complete also. I do believe though that God created all of us for Himself, and that it is pleasing to Him to see us make a life with somebody we're most compatible with, to grow with and to help us through the journey.
My husband and I seem made for each other too, and we've been happy through all the years, though with ups and downs. But we always understand that a relationship is to be worked on, it's a commitment that you make to somebody who's not perfect. If a marriage is happy, I think it's because the two people made a commitment to make it that way. I think that there is no perfect half for each of us, only a perfect commitment to that person you got married to. Good luck!
2006-11-10 13:00:32 · answer #4 · answered by Ava 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's great, I'm happy for you. But your assumption is a little far fetched or too much religion. What about the people who are in divorce court? You would have to attribute that to God also? See what I mean? Some people would chose to blame that on a man in a red suit with a pitch fork. But they always find excuses for everything. There are many non-believers who are just as happily married as you are. Enjoy tour marriage.
2006-11-10 12:58:05 · answer #5 · answered by The professor 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes I beleive so. Eveyone has their soul mate out there... some where. Ask God to help them find you ;) Also, the divorce rate has nothing to do with the soul mate thing. People just foolishly set into marriages with people they dont' truly love. I for one am not married, but who is to say the love of my life will not walk into my life any moment now? haha, maybe not, but God will take care of it.
God bless you, and I will pray for you :)
2006-11-10 12:52:29 · answer #6 · answered by apples 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I complete my husbands sentences before he even starts to speak. Ha! Ya, I know God gives us our soul mates.
2006-11-10 12:43:13 · answer #7 · answered by Red neck 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe it, yes. God gave me a wonderful husband, not to mention a terrific father to our two girls. He's my exact other half; he's slow where I'm fast, he's good at doing what I'm bad at doing lol, see what I mean? We fit together like puzzle pieces and together, we are one :)
2006-11-10 12:46:30 · answer #8 · answered by arewethereyet 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but there are no gaurantees that your perfect mate is in the same time zone or that the two of you will ever meet--you muslimah, are one of the lucky ones
2006-11-10 12:42:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, God the Father, The Son Jesus, the Holy Spirit and ME his servant. We are not a half but a Whole!!
2006-11-10 12:56:37 · answer #10 · answered by Commander 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋