... Some tips on rejection..... I want to reject lots of guys (in a friendly way), how do I go about doing that?? How would you like to get rejected, [I know rejection is nothing good at all, and you feel terrible] but, if you were to, how would you want to be rejected? (I know this is a very akward question, but work with me..)
2006-11-10
12:35:46
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Family & Relationships
➔ Singles & Dating
droopydog88: Shut up! Pervert!
2006-11-10
12:53:28 ·
update #1
clowmy: You're very sweet! like all the other guys who answered! [except droopydog88!!!!].
2006-11-10
12:56:01 ·
update #2
Just be honest with them and tell them that you are not interested in them in a romantic way. Sometimes there is just not a spark or a feeling of chemistry. Let them know that you both deserve to feel that something special and you hope that they can go and find that girl out there that will have the kind of feelings for them that they deserve. Try not to say the you like them as a friend because all a guy will do is hear the word like and then think that he still has a shot.
2006-11-10 12:42:07
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answered by No More 7
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Rejection isnt terrible at all LOL its a part of life u move on after so who really cares. Best way i would say is to just tell them tht u are sry but u arent interested and give them a positive comment like "we can be friends" or "i am not looking for a relationship with anyone now so i am sry"
2006-11-10 20:42:01
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answered by Epidemic 2
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Just be straight-forward with him. Express yourself but in a polite manner. If he doesn't like it...well...let him deal with it. All you have to do is get your point across about how you feel towards him. Once that is out of the way...you don't need to talk to him anymore if he doesn't agree. If he's okay with it...then what's wrong with being friends?
2006-11-10 20:47:44
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answered by T_Boy 3
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How about something like ,,,the truth. If you did not want to be with me then just say so. Let's see I want to spend the rest of my life with someone that doesn't want me and therefor would not be able to return my affection, or just take a little blow to the ego. Hmmm, lifetime or a few moments.
2006-11-10 20:43:58
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answered by Anonymous
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Hi Positive, Face to face just tell him your not interested in dating anyone at this time and thank him for his interest. It's a clean way of saying no and thank you for noticeing. A Friend.
Clowmy
2006-11-10 20:45:25
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answered by Anonymous
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Maybe just tell them that you know that the two of you aren't right for each other and that there is someone who fits his personality better out there for him and someone who fits your personality better out there for you. And if it's a friend, you could always use the "I don't want to ruin what we have." Good luck :)
2006-11-10 20:41:02
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answered by Koko T 2
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You've gt to be kidding. HA HA HA HA !
Do you think any guy thinks that much? (*I am one)
Rejection = move on to the next one.
2006-11-10 20:39:37
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answered by Anonymous
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Say something let like, "I got 6 kids by different daddys"
If that doesnt work, I dont know what will
2006-11-10 20:41:29
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answered by hardworkur84 2
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Say something like "Hey I want to be honest and I don't wanna waste your time or anything but I'm not really interested... im sorry..." us guys don't like to waste time, it's better if you just be honest we'd appreciate it!
2006-11-10 20:39:23
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answered by Anonymous
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I would say i don't think this going to work out between us or say i'm not allowed to have a boyfriend yet.
2006-11-10 20:41:02
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answered by Baby Phat 2
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