I have beens seeing this guy for two months now but he´s been slacking off lately, he calls whenever he wants to he asks me out whenever he wants to and I call him sometimes and I sometimes tell him that we should meet but he says things oh yeah sure thing and then never brings it up then last time we spoke he told me that he had all of his weekends busy with social engagements and he told me : if you want to see me get drunk tomorrow let me know, which I not only find inmature but kind of disrespectful. So what do I do should I just stop answering his calls or should I tell him that things aren´t working out for me? I don´t want him to get mad and I don´t want to fight with him but I just can´t go on with things the way they´re going. What do you advice?
2006-11-10 12:32:16 · 9 answers · asked by lorena l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dump him, he has no interest in you but for one thing, if I was seeing some one and was going to "social engagements" she would be with me. You're not getting what you want from this guy,so stop wasting your time.
2006-11-10 12:40:43 · answer #1 · answered by artic ranger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is tough. He's not in to you. And he doesn't have the strength of character to be open and honest with you. You need to dump him last week. He shouldn't even need an explanation; it's pretty obvious. Just tell him goodbye and you wish him well.
2006-11-10 20:37:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that things are not working out for you.Your friend is very disrespectful of you. This is no way to talk to a lady.
2006-11-10 20:49:37 · answer #3 · answered by darlyparly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump Him Immediately. He is showing you no respect. Don't return his calls, and when you talk to him,tell him you are too busy and you will get back to him, and then don't. He'll turn you into a loser in this situation.
2006-11-10 20:37:51 · answer #4 · answered by Beau R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is way to busy for a relationship with u, he has priorities but u aren't one of them, if u stay in a relationship like this one, you are settling for less than what u deserve. don't fight with him or even give ultimitiums, just start seeing others, he is way to immature for what u need from him, he isn't able to give you what u need or want , he is too busy doing what ever he does. just be happy u aren't married to him. his actions speak loudly, and this is who he is, and what his interests are.
2006-11-10 20:42:37 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like you need any advice. You've convinced me that the relationship is over.
Dump this guy and move on. It sounds like you would be better off without him.
2006-11-10 20:39:22 · answer #6 · answered by Labsci 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sister just get rid of him if you feel he's not the one then dump'em. I can't can't you what to do but look what's in front of you the sins are there you know what to do so do it. but be strong behind your decision. I can't say things are going to be roses but you'll feel alot more better.good luck!!!!!!!!
2006-11-10 20:40:54 · answer #7 · answered by rastaj4life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would give him a waring 1 say listen to me or else then u know what to do.
2006-11-10 20:37:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him its not working and if he still calls don't answer.
2006-11-10 20:37:42 · answer #9 · answered by ash 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋