I just ended a 4 month relationship with my boyfriend 3 days ago. I know it's short but hell, I really love/d him that much. Well he cheated on me when I was on a 3-week vacation and said that he was sorry but I could not satisfy his needs and such. He wanted us to be friends and said that he would be sad if we would not become friends.
I know that I should get over him but it's really hard because I think I still love him very much. I also want to be his friend but I don't know when is the right time. Right now I always keep checking his friendster account (and his new girl's) to see what's happening in his life.
I want to move on but it's just so hard. I want to talk to him or something so that he knows that I still have feelings for him but I want to move on but I'm afraid that if I hear his voice, I would just be fooling myself into thinking that there might still be a chance for us.
Please help me with my problems and thanks for the time :)
2006-11-10 12:30:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he said that he wanted to really tell me while I was away but did not have the courage to do so and hurt me. He said that he was also building up himself to tell me and that he is truly sorry for that. -- is this just his way of justifying his actions or should i consider it as something to believe?
2006-11-10 13:00:30 · update #1
Try to keep yourself as busy as possible. Do whatever it is to exhaust your thoughts of him. Throw yourself into work and your career, take up a new hobby, go out on the town with your single girlfriends. Make sure all your time is consumed with things that would help you not think about him. And if that fails, only time will help heal a broken heart. You'll probably never forget him, but at least it wont hurt as much a few years from now. I hope this helps. Take care.
2006-11-10 12:39:57 · answer #1 · answered by chevygirl6767 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, first of all, I am so sorry that this has happened to you. It is NOT your fault that he has the morals of a barnyard animal. You do not cause men to cheat on you. They do that because they are immoral idiots. What you need to do is walk away from this player. If he wanted to be your friend, he would have broken up with you first. He is not a friend at all. You do not need friends like him. Walk away,no more talking, no more nothing for him. You deserve better and he deserves a great big NOTHING.
2006-11-10 12:35:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lets see, you were going with him for four months, but were away on vacation for three weeks. That means that you were with him for three months and one week. Move on. This is tough, but there is always another guy out there. As to being his friend, why bother? He disrespected you, he doesn't deserve your friendship.
2006-11-10 12:45:40 · answer #3 · answered by Beau R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time heals ALL wounds .... the best advice ... as time goes on .. it will make it easier to be friends ..
2006-11-10 12:36:29 · answer #4 · answered by lezbianflava 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋