better,? i cry almost everday and think about dying almost daily. i sleep almost all day and have lost 25 pounds because i just have no appetite , can anyone out there relate? i have already been to couseling how much longer before i feel happy again ?
2006-11-10 12:26:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
I feel for you, you sound like you are going through a terrible deppresion. Im glad you are seeing a counsellor. hope you continue too. I think you need a prescription from your doctor though to help you through this. It is so sad all the trama you have been through in such a short time. I am not preaching but I will definetly say a prayer for you I think you might need help from every angle. Do you have a spouse or family to talk to?
Crying is normal but not continuous and sleeping that much is not good for you either. You are going to have to try very hard to face this and hold yourself up and believe you can do it!
I have had times like this and you need to get interested in something even if it is on the computer you might be able to reach out to someone else. Please try to discourage the suicide thoughts I know it is hard but there are people who need you somewhere and that is very final. I want nothing but the best for you so please keep in touch and let me know how you are making it through your days.
Life is Beautiful hon. keep your head up and spirits higher.
2006-11-10 12:41:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh gosh, the grieving process DOES take a long time. Especially when you have had so many losses all at once. Please take some time and just rest from everything. I tried to take my own life twice before but survived. I promise you, life is really really worth living. Despite the bad times and unimaginable things like this--it is still worth living. If you can, get a good support group going---companionship with others is wonderful. Other folks who care and will listen are wonderful, I know people like that helped me!!
I will pray for you definately. I don't know if you are Christian, but just know you have a Father in Heaven who loves you dearly--I promise!!
2006-11-10 20:54:26 · answer #2 · answered by Squeek 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grieving takes time. I am so sorry for your terrible losses. Do you have good friends? You need people around you that care or people that you can talk to by phone at least. I do not know the answer to your question because it is different for each person.
Take it one day at a time.
You are grieving because they were worth grieving for. That is a good thing.
Counseling is different depending on who you see. I Recommend you try again and maybe you need some anti depressants just to take the edge of things. Depression can be triggered by trauma.
God Bless you and keep you.
2006-11-10 20:36:46 · answer #3 · answered by JAM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lost a nephew that I thought of as a son. It is the worst feeling I have had so far but I decided that I would keep him alive in my heart and memories. And guess what. He visits and smiles at me and I love it. Are you on meds? If so you may need to change them. Sometimes it takes trying out several different ones till you find one that helps.. It sucks tryin to find the right one but it's worth it after you do. :-)
2006-11-10 20:45:38 · answer #4 · answered by wv_country_princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
.the mourning process can take up to two years or longer. I am so sorry you are having a rough time. I would suggest you keep up with the counseling and perhaps some anti-depressants. I will pray for you.
2006-11-10 20:33:00 · answer #5 · answered by bramblerock 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wellmy parents divorce when i was litlle and my mom and my great grandma raise but modtly my great grand when she died i just felt so bad i just dosent have interest of living but life goes on and well only god have the right to decide if u live or die so dont suicide yhe pains go away but it takes time of course it dosent compare to losing a mom but hang in there something will come ur way.well best of luck
2006-11-10 20:39:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear about your losses, yes it is painful, my wife and i lost 2 children do to miscarriage, and throughout the years i lost my hole family....father, mother, brother, 3 sisters, ....but life has to go on...I am not saying to forget you mother, or not to wonder about the baby, never to hear it laugh and giggle, ....these wounds will heal in time....find a Hobey, do something you like doing to get you mind off these misshapes,
2006-11-11 01:40:27 · answer #7 · answered by mark22059 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel so sorry for you! I know it takes so time when you lose a loved one. I will pray for you!! Please don't try to commit suicide again, things will get better, it just takes time.
2006-11-10 20:35:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let somebody be there for you.... it will help
for the nutrient, you may want to drink juice , or other vitamin
as for me, i feel empty, and always feel something is missing,
but to be in where somebody doing something around me makes a thing to be involved in
2006-11-10 20:43:05 · answer #9 · answered by Henry W 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋