Personally I couldn't. It would be too hard on me emotionally, never knowing whether they will come home safe and sound. Or even in one piece.
2006-11-10 12:09:15 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes. If your relationship is strong enough and you BOTH trust eachother, there's no good reason you can't make it work. There has to be honesty and LOTS of communication from both people.
2006-11-10 12:33:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Military wives have gone through a tremendous tress when their hubby is away. It is all too common for the Cat to play when the Mouse is away, but as a military for those who respect the oath, it is one hard emotional stress to deal with and their is counseling and groups for them to attend while the husband is away.
Be it known that there is no significant answer to solve or resolve a situation like that when all your world is shattered.
2006-11-10 12:18:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well I have been married to my husband for 3 years now we have been together for 7 and he just in-listed active duty in the Army and I am freaking out we have 2 kids together and the thought of him going over to Iraq is just killing me. So my answer is if you are involve d with someone that is in the military stand by them but if not just stay away!
2006-11-10 12:16:41 · answer #3 · answered by headdy30 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
good question but it has a dubious answer. yes or no. it all depends. some state have lots of men/women working in the army and they are like everyone else in life..they fall in love, marry, make children etc. etc. if you, yourself have the option of dating someone in the army and someone else not connected with the army...you have an option -- you can exercise that option according to your beliefs, sentiments, etc. each case is judged not by the "responder" but by the asker..hope it helps..it is meant that way...
2006-11-10 12:18:57 · answer #4 · answered by s t 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. My fiance and I are planning to get married in the next couple of months before I leave for the army. It is going to be so hard on us both because I have to go away for 3 months, but I 'm not going to go and fight, but if I had to I would be willing to fight for Australia. I am doing this to help my country and to better our lives.
2006-11-10 12:14:59 · answer #5 · answered by rach 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If a person can handle the idea of him/her going away on TDY'S and relocating often, then I say why not. But!! If ya can't handle that, its best not to even get involved.. Just my opinion.. Good Luck.. :)
2006-11-10 12:15:50 · answer #6 · answered by Hi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, of course. I wish I could be in the military. I would give anything to be in the military.. *sigh*
2006-11-10 12:18:46 · answer #7 · answered by Hot Mom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have lived near a military base all my life and on e of the first things parents teach their girls is not to date the military guys. not because it's a dangerous job, but because in general they seem to be no good. and no one wants the "military wife" stigma.
2006-11-10 12:15:47 · answer #8 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yep(if I were single) .Infact my husband is in the Navy, but he joined after we got married.
Behind every military man there is a strong woman.
2006-11-10 12:14:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
well you do have to be careful that they do not cheat on you too. i know this girl who slept with a guy in the military. the guy was married and she ended talking to his wife on the phone. she told his wife yea ***** i slept with your man what are you going to do about it.
2006-11-10 12:16:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋