i've been with this boy for about 3 DAYS << and hes shy and all his friend want me to make him un shy i.e less shy.... so basically they want me to make the first move a go straight into something like oral sex is 3 days to soon i think it is but all his friends and my friend say it never 2 soon
2006-11-10 12:08:45 · 22 answers · asked by stacy h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im only 13 !!! :S inoo
2006-11-10 12:12:19 · update #1
please concentrate on school... you have the rest of your life to worry about WHY waste your time making decisions like THAT?! Spend your time deciding on which college you want to attend.
2006-11-10 12:12:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO ORAL Sex. This is not appropriate for a 13 year old. If you are with him and he is shy then fine, you be shy too. Trust me. I started stuff early and I wish now I had not.
Stay out of pants. 3 days is soon, 13 is young. Enjoy the kissing.
2006-11-10 12:16:45 · answer #2 · answered by anirbas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully you are still a virgin, and at the age of 13 never tell anyone you've had sex. It will ruin your High School experience trust me. You'll only attract guys interested in one night stands cause they will think you're easy and sleezy.
He's a shy guy and I guarantee he's really sweet. If you want him to open up a little more when you're hanging out with him with a group of friends give him a kiss on the cheek when you're like going to your class or leaving you know? Or hug him and snuggle when you guys are together. He'll start opening up.
2006-11-10 12:16:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg. You should totally never do anything like that. good grief!!! You are only 13 years old. you should never have any kind of sex until you are married. why don't you just try talking to him and go do something together that is not sex related. or try hanging out with him. do something that interests him. abstain from sex!!! Good Luck!!!! =)
2006-11-10 12:18:49 · answer #4 · answered by supersillysmarty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to other people. And how old are you? This is a serious thing you are thinking about. You don't even know this person, so if it was me, I would forget it. You sound like you are very young. If you are, you shouldn't be thinking about these things right now. Be careful.
2006-11-10 12:15:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
haha man... u wish you were 13.
but yes even if u were 20 3 days is to soon
2006-11-10 12:14:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 days is too soon. Forget what others are saying and just let the relationship take its course.
2006-11-10 12:10:58 · answer #7 · answered by yogurlmsbunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should not move into oral sex just because they want you to. you don't need to. why not just go do something spontaneous go to a club and dance and have fun. make him feel good about him self so he can build his confidence.
2006-11-10 12:14:11 · answer #8 · answered by insomniac 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahaaha...yea wait some years...better still wait till ur married...hah...13...oh boy...with tweens gettin hornier everyday, its a wonder why the world is startin to fill up with pedophiles...geez...wats up wiv parents these days, they should start puttin a tighter leash on their kids....
2006-11-10 12:17:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT'S NOT WHAT THEY WANT... IT'S WHAT YOU WANT TO DO....AND 3 DAYS IS TO FAST...AND I REALLY DONT THINK GOING UP TO HIM LIKE ORAL SEX IS GONNA HELP GONNA MAKE HIM LESS SHY...DONT LET YOUR FRIENDS PLAY YOU LIKE A FOO...CUZ THATS WHAT IT LOOKS LIKE THERE DOIN...MAKE YOUR OWN CHOICE!!!
2006-11-10 12:16:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Woe!!! You become so cheap to initiate oral sex???
2006-11-10 13:00:23 · answer #11 · answered by AH HA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋