I still have wet dreams and I'm 40 years old. Am I weird?

Answer 1

I had brain surgery 3 years ago and obviously i couldn't have sex for a while, well after about a month, even though i was still pretty ill, i started to have really erotic dreams, even though sex was definitely not on the agenda for me, i woke my wife to "let her take the situation in hand". i'm pretty sure i was on the verge of wet dreams, i was 38.
Basically youre not wierd, once you get a regular sex life going again, i'm sure they will stop. it is nothing to be ashamed of anyway, it's just your bodies way of letting you know that everythings still working.

Answer 2

No you are not.

A nocturnal emission is an ejaculation of semen experienced during sleep. It is also called a "wet dream", an involuntary orgasm, or simply an orgasm during sleep.

Nocturnal emissions are most common during teenage and early adult years. However, nocturnal emissions may happen any time after puberty. They may or may not be accompanied by erotic dreams. It is possible to wake up during the ejaculation, or to just stay asleep during the ejaculation

During puberty, 13 percent of males experience their first ejaculation as a result of a nocturnal emission. Kinsey found that males experiencing their first ejaculation through a nocturnal emission were older than those experiencing their first ejaculation by means of masturbation. The study indicates that such a first ejaculation resulting from a nocturnal emission was delayed a year or more from what would have been developmentally possible for such males through physical stimulation.

Whereas an ejaculation normally terminates an erection, in the case of nocturnal emission, the subject often still has a functional erection afterward.

Although purported treatments to help prevent or diminish nocturnal emissions are available in abundance, none are known to have undergone any kind of rigorous experimentation or approval process such as that required by the Food and Drug Administration. Like the hiccups, there are a huge variety of "home remedies" with no scientific basis. Moreover, because no physical harm (beyond the inconvenience of the semen ejaculate) is caused by the event and it is not symptomatic of any underlying problem, it is generally considered inadvisable to undergo any sort of treatment except in cases of severe psychological trauma.

Involuntary orgasms can, more rarely, occur during waking hours in women as well as men. The German word Pollution (= Samenerguß), which does not have the same meaning as the English word "pollution", describes all these involuntary orgasms collectively.

Answer 3

Nah you're not gay - I'm not gay and I've dreamed about sleeping with other women. Whatever floats your boat mate, it's not as weird as some people's fantasies, and no I don't think you're sick or confused. Having dreams/fantasies about older women is fine!! Ha you could try seducing an older woman - there's lots of them would love to have a strapping young man!! YOUNG MAN!!

Answer 4

good god why would it be weird to have wet dreams at 40,your still a young guy !!

Answer 5

Do you mean wet dreams or just dirty dreams. You have 'wet' dreams when you're releasing a build up of semen, If you're regulaly
releasing this yourself through sex or masturbation then you won't have them.

We all have dirty dreams however from time to time.

Answer 6

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Answer 7

Nope, I have wet dreams and I'm a FEMALE!

Answer 8

Just be glad you have such enjoyable dreams, doesn't matter one bit if others aren't as lucky as you.
If you are weird, then it's a blessing.

Answer 9

every body has wet dreams at any age its because of sperm build up, you have got to much and your body has to release's it. so hence we have wet dreams

Answer 10

i think its uncommon for a 40 yr old to still get sexually excited from a dream! unless youre a virgin but what the hell ,everyone to there own!