the normal thing is the boy make the first move but my new boy-friend wont make a move so really its left to me any tips on makeing a move on a boy thats quiet shy
2006-11-10 12:05:47 · 15 answers · asked by stacy h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just take over and get it on. Us guys LOVE it when the girl initiates things.
2006-11-10 12:08:07 · answer #1 · answered by TrainerMan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy doesn't make a move (probably because he's shy), it's your job (if you want to keep the relationship going) to make the first move. Most shy guys like feisty and outgoing girls. I suggest you find a time when it's just the two of you (when your friends aren't around) to make your move. This way, the guy will feel more comfortable. By making the first move, the guy will have more confidence and slowly become less shy. Trust me, if he does like you, just make your move.
2006-11-10 12:16:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you're totally sure that he likes you back, maybe you should make the move. :)
Not all guys have that courage that we see in so many movies or read in books! We all fear rejection. But it's better than wondering "Why not?" or "What if?".
I've made the first move before. It's nothing big. You can't always stay traditional! Besides, there are plenty of guys who get turned on by a girl who knows when to take charge. :)
good luck!
2006-11-10 12:09:59 · answer #3 · answered by Gwyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he's your boyfriend so there's nothing wrong with making the first move! As he's shy be subtle, you probable hug him don't you? Well if not then do this as much as possible (when appropriate of course) then when you're more comfortable about holding each other, when your both alone, move as if your just going to hug him then kiss his cheek, then move down onto his neck - I'm sure he'll get the idea from then on of what you want to do! He should carry on with you from there!
Good luck!
2006-11-10 12:12:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jump! after a while he'll get a clue and start being more aggressive
2006-11-10 12:11:27 · answer #5 · answered by royce r 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
these days it doesnt matter who makes the moves on who..if your guy is shy then go head adn kiss him ..put your hadns round his neck and just smack those lips togehter..
2006-11-10 12:09:00 · answer #6 · answered by sinful vampyra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea i think u should make the first move
2006-11-10 12:09:11 · answer #7 · answered by lilmama2346 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-10 12:10:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grab his hand and rub yourself with it.If that doesnt work,nothing will.
2006-11-10 12:10:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just make your move, do what you feel inside.
2006-11-10 12:08:29 · answer #10 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋