i lost my virginity last year to a boyfriend we had sex all the time!! i broke up with him and told myself i was never going to have sex again!! it worked for the past 10months now i cant take it!! is this normal??
2006-11-10 11:40:25 · 21 answers · asked by prece88 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is a simple question.
You used to get it all the time and now, you don't get anything so it's natural that you crave it more.
2006-11-10 11:42:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear...
You are fine... You body is run by the brain. It beats the heart.
It makes you breath. None of these things are though of...
What I mean is that you think you are in control, but you are not
really at the drivers seat. If you think I'm wrong... Try holding your breath for 15 minutes...
Won't happen ! Yet you are in control of breathing... Well.. So you think anyway ! Your body is designed for one thing. Once a
girl has has sex once... Its like smoking... You're hooked !
The brain has been given instructions by nature. The goal is
to replicate ! That is the only thing you are on earth for. At least
from the brains point of view anyway. Nature makes males
mastubate. Everyone knows that... Its all we do... But did you
ever stop to ask why...
Its a silly thing if you think about it... I mean yeah its fun and stuff
but its kind of pointless. Not so... Nature intended males to
do that, because they are keeping things clean and ready. They
are in practice for what will become their only job as far as nature
is concerned.
While males continue this until they die... A girl is different. They only last a short while. Their job is more demanding. They are
required to construct another human.
A baby will steal nutrients from its mother ! A girl puts up with
great losses in iron and blood cells. You period. In you lifetime
you will loose more blood than what we males carry in our entire
body, and then some.
All of this is being done for you. You don't have to think about a period. Its going to happen. You don't think of beating your heart.
It like everything else - WILL HAPPEN.
The desire for SEX is very powerful ! The instructions are in
your brain. It knows what needs to be done. Masturbation might
actually help since its safe ! I recomend this a great deal.
Somehow its ok for us Males, and society has a twisted view
when it comes to women, and this subject. Almost all of you do
it, but none of you admit to it... This is social conditioning.
Its the safest thing to do, and it could save your life. Without
doing it, you put yourself at risk of doing anyone that happends
by... Be picky about your mates... Its a question of life and death
today. Be nice to yourself first... Then to someone else.
Sex is a great thing, but there are risks out there and some
stay forever ! Be carefull... There is nothing wrong with you.
You need it.. So get busy... Us boys are... Its all we do...
All the time... I'm glad its expected from us... I'd die if it wasn't.
I hope this saves your life one day, and I believe the answer to
to be the right one, and the best one.
So don't worry... Be happy ! Do what's right, and have fun at
it... Its what life is all about.
bye...
2006-11-11 16:45:24 · answer #2 · answered by Skin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL... your question is rather humerous because before I was married they told me that if I ever had sex I would want it constantly. Boy.. am I glad I waited till I was married to have sex because that way I can get some from my hubby all the time! The truth is it's very normal, your hormones changed when you had sex for the first time. I would suggest keeping calm think of somthing else or if all else fails take your self to the XXX shop. They got plenty of things that will help you there!
2006-11-10 11:50:33 · answer #3 · answered by ~* Pink Princess *~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is very normal what u r experiencing,i am a guy and some times i do think about sex for weeks or even over a month or two,but then i have that horny feeling again and i feel that i am gonna explode from inside out,so yes it is normal,and it is only hormones doing there work in our body.
2006-11-13 01:57:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possibly normal. Each person is different. Some can go long periods of time without sex, like years, and other can only go a few days or a week.
2006-11-10 11:41:34 · answer #5 · answered by blissfully_rebellious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you fell horny i sugest you use a dildo and give youslef orgasms, if this doesnt work i suggest you should try asking your partner if he will have sex with you.
The reason why you are getting really horney is because you havent had sex for a long time and thinking about iy makes you want it more so you get horney so he best thing to do is stop thinking about it and you will be less horney in the future
2006-11-10 11:44:18 · answer #6 · answered by jess b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is, before you did not know what you were missing, but now you know, and a year is a lot of time.
But you can play with yourself, that is fun also, and a great way to know the best ways to turn you on, for when you are ready to have sex again
2006-11-10 11:46:34 · answer #7 · answered by gone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea, its called being a human, and thats an awfully hard promise to keep having hormones and all, sex is something a majority of humans crave unless they are a unick. I think that may be a cruel promise to make to yourself to never have sex again, maybe you should start slower, like not untill your married or something,you set to bar way too high.
2006-11-10 11:44:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause you haven't had sex for a lot of time. That's how one feels when one doesn't have sex for a long time
2006-11-10 11:44:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's normal. stick to your guns! don't give in to the pressure of your hormones. if it gets that bad, you have other options besides finding a quicky. go to an adult store and take care of your own needs. You dont have to find comfort in a mans arms to keep your hormones in check.
2006-11-10 11:45:18 · answer #10 · answered by mrsmoose05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋