i'm 31, and i still live with my mom, she is very irritable at time hard to talk to, everything i say i s?

Question

everything i say is wrong ,even when it is right,or she already know that, so she says. now i know 31 at home with momma,ok. i like living here, i give her money every week from my check, i'm waiting on a good woman , that i guess i'll never find, i try to agree with her, but it seems every time we are in the same room some how she takes what i say wrong , then here comes the arguement, for nothing , i love my mom, but just want to get along with her, while i still have her here, some people say i should just agree with everything she says, but i can't see why i should lie to her, by the way i have been married and owned my own home, but me and wife went our own ways, no kids

my mother said she likes me being here, that way i don't get in trouble,and she can keep an eye on me lol

Answer 1

The first thing a "good woman" is going to want is a man who doesn't live with his mother.

Women like a man who stands on his own two feet. Try learning to do that.

Answer 2

Yeah, it may be great living at your mothers house, but the fact of the matter is you are a G.A.M (Grown As* Man). If you do not like the opinions of your mother, then maybe it would be best for you to move out. You say you have owned your own home before, what makes it hard to do it again? In one case, Red Peach may be right : Your mother, probably, just wants her space. You, also, stated, "i'm waiting on a good woman , that i guess i'll never find...," which implies that you will stay with moms until you find one? Honestly, you probably won't find one as long as you are living in her house. See, let me tell you something, still living with your mother at the age of 31 implies:
A. You are a mama's boy
B. You have no life
C. You are not independent and ready to take on life without someone holding your hand the whole way
OR
D.You just don't care nor have set any standards about yourself

OH LORD, I just realized something. You don't have a good paying job do you? Well, at leat one that will qualify as a good paying job by society's standards. OH LORD! Now it all makes sense. That is the real reason why you don't have you own place and can't find a woman. Not to say that I am a gold digger (I am not even into material things), but alot of women just want to know that they can have someone to secure them. I don't want to keep talking if the good paying job is what you have. So, contact me through email cause I just want to know what is really going on.

Answer 3

Look, are you really kidding? You need to get a life and move out of your mother's home!! She's pissed off because your back at home "waiting on a good woman"!! Let me tell ya honey, your not gonna find one living with your Mom! Find an apartment, buy your mom a dozen roses and MOVE OUT!! You'll be surprised how happy she will be cooking you dinner once or twice a week after your on your own!!

Answer 4

You should move out on your own. Can't you do things for yourself? You won't find a good woman who wants a mama's baby. You are giving your mama permission to keep a check on you for the rest of your life. If she won't cut the apron strings then you should be man enough to do so! The fact that you lived with your ex for a while will not help you to score points!

Answer 5

1 - Move out

2 - Treat your mother well. Don't lie, but you're right she won't be around forever

3 - If you're waiting to move out until you can have yourself another mother [aka a wife] and that is the only reason you're not moved out yet and you were my son - I might be mad too. You're more likely to find yourself a good woman if you weren't living at home [seen by many single women as sad or as a momma's boy]

Might seem a little harsh but its true.

Answer 6

Get your own place to live. 31 is way too old to be living with mom. You probably can't find a good woman because when they find out you are still living with mom they think you are irresponsible and immature. Which you probably are.

Answer 7

U have to understand whatever ur age u r, ur mom is ur mom. Now u have to understand things from her point of view,

she my have missed certain things in life (due to any reason), she may not want u miss those in ur life.

she may not want u to live with her.

she may have something to say, but u r unable to understand

Be optimist in life. I have heard some say. "Live fishes swim against the water current and dead fishes swim against"

Here live is positive action for u & dead is inaction or crowdly reaction. "Be awake, Stand upright work hard till ur goal is reached"

Answer 8

Misery likes company. If your mom is so disagreeable and argues with you all the time move out and get your own place.
Go by and check on her, make sure she is ok but get your own place. Once you are back on your own things should get better.

Answer 9

the reason your mom is so upset with you is because you are in her house! she already raised you and now your back! i'd be pissed all the time to! get out of her house. who cares if you like living there, it's not your house. have some respect for her and her life.

Answer 10

well y don't u get your own apartment, maybe she wants some privacy or something. it sucks bcus u like it there but maybe it's time to move oout and see how she feels about that. good luck. maybe u can find an apartment close to were she lives.