i still love my ex and he has a gf. he always stares at me and we are really good friends. wat should i do? the other question is that his gf wants him to stop being friend wit me becuase of the friendship we have and that we were going out for 2 and 1/2 years. what should we do?
2006-11-10 11:33:08 · 11 answers · asked by misssmoothforever 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I still love mine too and we are really good friends.But you should tell his gf to take a hike cuz u shouldn't go no where for her.and she obviously just a jealous ***** because yo relashionship lasted so long. So beat her *** and you won't have to worry about her mouth!
2006-11-10 11:41:30 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a straightforward case really.
Question No 1:
Do nothing. You and your ex broke up and he has a girlfriend. Facts. Accept them. I am sorry that this is harsh, but which is the strongest? That he has a girlfriend, or that you think he stares at you? He might even stare at you because he is concerned you might misinterpret his friendship, which you probably have already anyway! (YOU said that you are really good friends with the guy)
Question No 2:
His girlfriend is probably not an idiot and realises you want him back. Can you blame her for being right on spot? Plus, you were together for over 2 years and surely she knows that too!
If you really accept the facts here and behave like a genuine friend (although you are unlikely to, at least at this stage, as you still love him) and not as a jealous ex, she will have no further reasons to object to your friendship.
The important thing to consider here is that you would probably feel the same way as the other girl does if you were in her shoes.
2006-11-10 19:56:25 · answer #2 · answered by eleni f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen gal..the guy has moved on and so should you..if he wanted a relationship with you he wouldnt have broken up with you in the first place and def not have a new girlfriend..and dont you think if he really was interested he would of said something by now or made a move on you..has he? ...truth is youre holdling on to some old feelings..that you should let go off..even if that means ending your friendship..n e girl would feel threatened by their boyfriends ex hovering around all the time..no offense..so i thnk if it didnt work out the first time, it would never work..you might be interpreting his kindness for love..and its not that he doesnt care for you, cus after two years im suer he has some feelings for you but just not the feelings you want him to have for you..if he did he would of dumped that girl long time ago and gone back tyo you..so i say move on and take it easy...
2006-11-10 19:41:22 · answer #3 · answered by sinful vampyra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well think about it. if you were the new girlfriend would you what your boyfriend to still be friends with his old grilfriend? you as a girl u know that other girl still has feelings for him. leave them alone. he moved on. he showing u by his actions. he might have some feeling for u but there not strong enough to keep or ask u back or maybe he did. What ever the case is he still gots a newfriend. Give him the space and respect and let him be with this new girl. He will love u more and respect u more. as a friend. He likes this new girl.And hes new girlfriend fears u. of what u both had. So don't act like the dumming here. give him space.
2006-11-10 19:45:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u 2 really r such good friends, take a break 4 awhile to let each of u know 4 sure what ya want and to give him a chance with his girl or he might blame u if they break up or any problems they might have in the future. Don't want that. He 'll come back to ya. She is insecure right now. Give her a break and u 2 might become friends? Good luck it will only bug ya 4 awhile, I hope.
2006-11-10 19:39:22 · answer #5 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he still has feelings for you he will eventually come around, as for the new gf, well let him know that you would never make him choose between his gf and you, but if he has to then he can go ahead and you will always be there if he needs you, then just back away. guys tend to hate ulimatiumns....if she causes drama about u nd him, then she probably caused drama about many other things and from my exp. guys hate drama, so just let him figure itout on his own and just be the best friend you can be
2006-11-10 19:39:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first tell ur ex dat u still have feelins 4 him. second if he is really happy wit his gf and u want de best 4 him, stop seein him.
2006-11-10 19:36:27 · answer #7 · answered by Babygurl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Amy and Sam. Don't needlessly complicate your life! (Its complicated as it is!) Don't cheapen yourself. You are much better than that!
2006-11-10 19:38:21 · answer #8 · answered by Kellybelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for her to be done with him! Remember Karma!
2006-11-10 19:35:43 · answer #9 · answered by HAPPY <3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Runaway and get hitched it is the only answer.
2006-11-10 19:36:05 · answer #10 · answered by Style Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋