i am a stright boy but there is a boy in my year and apparently he fancies me what should i do :S?
2006-11-10 11:24:29 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thats flattering. You should not be freaked out. So what if he likes you, just be pleasent and tell him you are not interested and that you are str8.
You cant change him, and he cant change you so just deal with it, and consider it a compliment that he fancies you.
2006-11-10 11:27:26 · answer #1 · answered by calcdffirefighter 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well, be nice, but tell him you are not interested. Just because this one boy has a crush on you does not mean you attract boys. It just means he sees something in you he does not posess himself. Here is some teaching on crushes below.
The Wonder Of Crushes
Written by Evan Bailyn on 06/21 at 11:15 AM
Having a crush is one of our original human impulses - it is the feeling of seeing in another person characteristics that compliment your being so well that you feel impelled to join their life with yours. It is a strong, passionate longing for a partnership with a person that has something you don’t have and could never possess. It is a magnetic desire for an image of beauty fetched from youth. It is a flood of emotion so mentally overwhelming that it affects your physical being.
Thinking of your crush directly causes a rush in your chest and a noticeable increase in your heartbeat. The tragedy of knowing that your crush might not reciprocate your feelings fills you with depression and hopelessness. All you can do is fantasize about your crush becoming a part of your life, of linking your experiences with theirs, of assimilating their magical existence into your mundane world.
Having a crush is a euphoric, desperate, compulsive state of being. It is truly a life-affirming experience.
2006-11-10 11:38:36 · answer #2 · answered by stick man 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So APPARENTLY this boy fancies you, whos to say its not just playground chit chat! or somebody trying to wind you up. So what if he does like you, take it as a compliment. As long as he knows your straight theres nothing to worry about, you cant help who your attracted to.
2006-11-10 11:47:17 · answer #3 · answered by the_one_and_only 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing; just get on with your life. If you don't give him the impression that you are interested then he will realise that you are not interested. It's no different than having a girl you don't really like fancying you.
2006-11-10 11:29:28 · answer #4 · answered by charleymac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha!! You seem to have my problem, too!!! I attract boys as well, but I'm a girl, so that's ok, but my point is it's highly/extremely irritating because I want nothing to do with them, not yet! I've tried all I can, but the best thing to do is, IGNORE! Best thing I've done. Trust me.
2006-11-10 11:32:46 · answer #5 · answered by positive 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1) Ignore him
2) Tell him that you are straight, after found out that he's interested in you
If he's not really interest in you, if you heard that he fancies you by rumors...you don't want to make yourself a fool by suddenly telling him that you are straight.
That's all you can do.
2006-11-10 11:28:07 · answer #6 · answered by Este 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hang out more with the girls? No maybe not, tell him you are straight and not in the least bit interested in him or any other male.
2006-11-10 11:27:40 · answer #7 · answered by mistickle17 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
haha too funny! umm..first make sure that he really does fancy you, cuz it would be weird to go up to him and be like "sorry i'm straight" and he's like..."so am i" :| (get the facts first, then just tell him you like girls!)
2006-11-10 11:35:24 · answer #8 · answered by c@ramel_m@mi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him to buzz of be blunt and be a friggin' man already you'll never meet any hot gurls that way!!
2006-11-10 15:51:36 · answer #9 · answered by hotcherry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ensure he shaves, close your eyes and give him a mouthful
2006-11-10 13:26:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋