1 am almost thirty one years old have terrible stretch marks on my belly, do you think any man will want me in this state? because of this i hadn't had any other relationship for the past 9 years. please help.
2006-11-10 11:09:15 · 8 answers · asked by iamjamming 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh my goodness, don't you worry your head for one more moment about your stretch marks, good men, who are not shallow don't care about stuff like that. I've never had trouble getting a man and my stomach and waist look horrible what with the stretch marks and old C-section scars. Its not a biggie, if it is...dump him, why waste your time on someone who can't except you for the way you are. Learn to love yourself, when you stand in front of the mirror stop looking at whats not right and start looking at what IS right. How you view yourself is EXACTLY how other people will treat you. We teach people how to treat us by the crap we take over and over again. Don't settle.
2006-11-10 11:16:29 · answer #1 · answered by jupitor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have stretch marks on my belly too...
and i have a wonderful b/f (hopefully-to-be-more someday)
I am also insecure about them.
I think a man would want u. just dont let it bother u. B/c the man who it doesnt bother is the one for u!
I use cocobutter scream ment for stretch marks and i doesnt make it disappear but it toned them down a lil bit.
2006-11-10 19:14:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most mothers have some stretch marks.It ruins your career as a bikini model or porn star not your chances for love.
2006-11-10 19:12:49 · answer #3 · answered by Style Girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if a guy truely likes you he will like you for whats on the inside and not the outside. i also am not perfect on the outside. Your not alone. There are plenty of fish in the sea and you haven't pulled one out yet. Keep trying and keep your head up .
2006-11-10 19:11:41 · answer #4 · answered by diamondprincess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Despite common lore, not all men are jerks and go for looks alone, it's your personality more than anything else that will attract someone and if they're worth your time, they won't care, and if they aren't, there'll be others who are
2006-11-10 19:11:58 · answer #5 · answered by Ace A 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-10 19:16:00 · answer #6 · answered by yummy _ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he really loves you , yes he will. stretch marks don't make the person...
2006-11-10 19:12:12 · answer #7 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Real men love you for who you are, not for some skin on your stomach.
2006-11-10 19:11:06 · answer #8 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋