well i am 17 and i have had some ok sex but never been able to climax. i am interested in masturbation but was very turned off by it untill recently when i tried it and i didnt do so good. i know im hopless. i cant even get myself off. what can i do? the guys my age sure dont know what they are doing. its really getting out of controll im watching porn to much and ....... well you get it HELP!
2006-11-10 11:06:32 · 5 answers · asked by Alycee C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know you must be frustrated, but relax! Some women can't climax during sex (I know, not helping!) and if you happen to be one of those, don't freak! You can either climax by helping yourself, or having your partner get you off. Also, some women aren't able to climax until they get older. I couldn't until I was about 20, and it was through oral. If you can't get to climax through masturbation, just keep trying! You just have to get used to doing it until you can relax enough to climax. YOU HAVE TO RELAX! In order to climax, you can't have your head filled with negative thoughts! Just let your body FEEL, and think of things that turn you on.
I hope this helps you!
PS: you're 17, your body may not be ready for you to do what you want it to
2006-11-10 11:16:21 · answer #1 · answered by banana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you must be doing something wrong if you cant even get yourself off. Are you penetrating your Clit?? If you still cant off then you might want to find A MAN who will give you oral sex. Thats mostly how i have orgasams. You are still young and practice makes perfect yanno? Just keep trying but dont try too hard. When trying to get yourself off you might want to be fantasizing of something really sexual while you are doing it. Good luck and keep practicing.
2006-11-10 19:12:51 · answer #2 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
try flexing the muscle that you use to stop peeing. this muscle is the key to orgasm. when you begin to climax, you need to flex that muscle and you will eventually achieve orgasm. guys your age are too young to know how to make you ***. try playing with you clitoris {the thing you pee out of}
2006-11-10 19:11:17 · answer #3 · answered by mike d 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try a vibrater!!!Works 4 me!!!
2006-11-10 19:10:14 · answer #4 · answered by xxxxaoifexxxx 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should try to explore yourself and feelings first.
2006-11-10 19:11:35 · answer #5 · answered by â?¥ Pawya! 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋