He always surprise by grabbing my hands, or pinch me in a playful way, i tell him to stop.My bf, is very sweet and loving, and since we all work together, he saw it, and was very mad at me.He didn't say nothing in public,just gave me a stern look.What might I expect in private ? What should I say,to fix it ?HELPPPPPP
2006-11-10 11:04:53 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YOU NEED TO SLAP THAT "FRIEND"
END YOU'ALL'S RELATIONSHIP NOW (WITH THE FRIEND, NOT YOUR BOYFRIEND)
SHOW SOME AGGRESSION---WORDS NEVER CUT IT WITH MEN
2006-11-10 11:07:33 · answer #1 · answered by What gives? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i had a male friend that was gay. we had been friends for two years before i met the man i am married to know. I thought the world of my friend. My husband was very jealous over him. I told him there was nothing to worry about and that if he couldn't accept me and this guy being friend that me and him would have problems because i had that friend before i met him and that men come and go but friends were forever. Well my friend met a guy that he liked moved an hour away and dropped me like a hot potato. Me and my husband still argued over this friend for sometime. Well about four months ago my friends bf broke up with him and he moved back. So then he acted like he never dropped me. So this time i put alot of distance between me and this friend, because i wanted to respect my husband. I even told him that and he said that my husband should repect that we were friends and that he didn't owe my husband respect. But the way I saw it is if he was my true friend he would have still kept in contact with me when he was with his bf. So what i am telling you is that if your friend doesn't want to show your bf respect then maybe he really isn't the friend you thought he is. Because he would understand that you have enough love for the both of them and respect the way you... feel. so you need to let your bf know that your are sorry and will discuss it with your friend and that if he can't respect the way you feel then you will have to cut that friend loose. And if your bf don't want to give you the chance to do that then maybe he is going to be over jealous, so just way your options before letting the wrong guy down.
2006-11-10 11:28:14 · answer #2 · answered by blue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is my philosophy....any person can have friends of the opposite sex as long as they came before the current relationship....if they came after no way!!!
I do not see a reason for you to not be friends with the other guy....but it is simply a matter of respect to your boyfriend that inappropriate play doesn't happen. How would you feel if you saw another woman playing around with your boyfriend in the same fashion???
IF it is truly harmless play it shouldn't be too much of a big deal.
Also you can let your boyfriend know that the two of you have always been playful and that your b/f is the only one for you!! GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-11-10 11:16:44 · answer #3 · answered by yidlmama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What if you saw him with a girl, doing the same thing, and he told you, she was just a friend? How would that make you feel? Are you sure you are not trying to get attention, or just trying make him jealous? It is not a good idea to play this kind of games. Guyds sometimes cannot handlethis kind of thing, and it leads to violence either to you or to your "friend".
2006-11-10 11:16:13 · answer #4 · answered by Garnet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You p.c.. your bags. What guy might want to favor to make sure his female to be flirting with yet another guy for sex. No guy must be a looser of pointing out another guy childrens. he's spending a lot attempt on you and different adult adult males purely have sex with you for interesting. even no matter if that is a comic book tale for you, for adult adult males is it like a comic book tale at them. i recognize you attempt to create a contest for your guy, to make him jealous and 'take excitement in you extra', yet women everybody is stupid, you do not discuss that type of crap and it pushes him away. Now he will be searching for the thanks to end the courting. i have been there. the prompt that befell, i replaced into searching for the thanks to get remote from courting.
2016-11-29 00:29:56 · answer #5 · answered by england 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all, when u two are in private, address the issue before he does. this will show that u understand why he is upset. and u probably know this, but u need to talk to your friend and tell him he just cant be that way with you anymore. but also dont let your bf's jealousy ruin the friendship. good luck!
2006-11-10 11:09:01 · answer #6 · answered by Jen 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all, stop putting up with your "playful" friend. Tell him that he seriously needs to stop. It sounds almost as if you're condoning his behavior. Don't flirt back. Secondly, tell your boyfriend the truth. Good luck!
2006-11-10 11:07:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just say how it is. the truth is always the best and he should understand. also tell u friend what has happened to make sure all of it keeps in hand.
2006-11-10 11:16:15 · answer #8 · answered by Matthew E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the friend to back off! Your boyfriend may dump you. It is not a good idea to have a touchy friend and a b/f. Really tell the friend to back off, way off and tell your boyfriend you are sorry and you will tell him to keep his hands to himself.
2006-11-10 11:09:49 · answer #9 · answered by hummingbird 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't fix it. HE should be the one fixing this. Either he trusts you or he doesn't. You sound like you are pretty young, so learn early!-- If a guy can't accept you for who you are (that means who your friends are too!) then hes not worth your time.
He needs to apologize for acting like a butt.
2006-11-10 11:07:53 · answer #10 · answered by IWantToKnow 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should tell your little friend to keep his hands off you, and act like a lady.
2006-11-10 11:07:06 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋