A guy is unable to listen to your feelings..instead when you tell them to him he gets angry and yells at you. Shouldnt everyone be able to express there feelings without feeling scared too?
2006-11-10 11:03:19 · 4 answers · asked by oxygenO 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes he does expect me to listen!
2006-11-10 11:12:36 · update #1
yes you should'nt feel scared to express your feelings. I know because I was scared the same way. But I was in maggiage been with him for 10 yrs. After he would yell I felt anger inside but for years I took it. After awhile I yelled back. Nothing came out good. My point to u is it won't get better he won't stop. Why the issue is not u it's him. Some men feel that they can't help u so they yell and argue with you. all u what him to do is listen and maybe hold u and understand u.He might not know how to answer u back. Maybe u should tell him to hold u if he can't find the words to express what u just told him. And if that don't work it will never change. Rememeber the issue is with him. It's not right to feel scared to talk to the person u share life with. But let him know frist. Then go from there. He either going to do two things he going to try to make that change and don't expect over night or he will always be that way and my advice to u is don't waste your life. A person cannot change other person it don't work. Rememeber love yourself. Read Ten Stupid Things Women Do to Mess up Their Lives by Dr. Laura Schlessinger it's easy reading a paper back book it's good. If I knew about it before I would of never waste 10 yrs of my life. Take Care and there's aother book she wrote for couples Ten Stupid Things Couples Do to Mess Up Their Relationships. Please get them
2006-11-10 11:25:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When any one can't listen and take the time to understand some one , it means they are not interested enough to care. Being in a good relationship means to understand and care . Obviously he doesn't. Don't waste your time or words ..
2006-11-10 19:07:22 · answer #2 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well of course your always going to be scared to open up to someone and yeah its normal but if the guy yells at you and gets angry he doesnt want to hear it so its better is youjust shut up
2006-11-10 19:13:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should probably pick someone who isn't so self-invovled that they don't want to hear what you think. Bet he expects you to listen though, huh?
2006-11-10 19:08:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋