I am getting divorced. I know that my husband is already seeing and living with another women and says "he is so happy and content". I have dated this gentleman for a month or so and he too is getting divorced, I would like to date other men, and him, but he feels you date one and if the relationship doesn' t work out you move on to the next pick. Do I move on to the next "pick" or do I date around any way? I would feel like I was cheating on him if I didn't tell him of my other Dates.
2006-11-10 10:43:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I personally think that if you aren't in a relationship you are free to date whomever you choose, whenever you choose. But the people you are dating need to know that you are not exclusive with them. Tell him that you are not in a committed relationship with him and you may want to date other men as well. If you guys aren't on the right page about that now, chances are it will only get worse down the road.
I think you should do what YOU want to do.
2006-11-10 10:47:01 · answer #1 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds alot like me in that he's kind of old fashioned. I personally would not jump right back into another monogamous relationship. Best thing I could tell you is, date around a bit, and see what's out there. You might find someone you like more than him. If that's not the case, then you can always try to get back with him. Just explain to him what's going on, and if he's any kind of a good guy, he'll understand.
2006-11-10 18:48:47 · answer #2 · answered by Eric B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you have one marraige already down the tubes and not know the answer to this question? He is a person, not a pair of shoes. You cant just slip him on when you feel like it and then think oh, I'll wear a different pair today. Get real. If you dont want a real relationship and he does, then get out of his life.
2006-11-10 18:47:33 · answer #3 · answered by asiwant 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how much you like this guy...it is pretty simple.
How much you like him vs how much you want to date other guys.
Let him know that you (like him) are coming out of a marriage and you are not ready to be exclusive as of yet. I understand his point, I would feel the same way like "Oh, I am not good enough...you want to date other guys too". But if that is how you feel, don't limit yourself.
It's YOU time now! If you want to 'sample' more than just pick one meal, it's your right and you have earned it.
2006-11-10 18:47:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date around and it is up to you to tell him or not. Don't get sexually involved without the man wearing a condom for protection from a social disease. You have to protect yourself and others if you " date around very much".
2006-11-10 18:50:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You deserve some freedom, girl. Don't let another guy trap you so quick! (just my opinion. I married the same day my divorce was final. sigh)
2006-11-10 18:46:47 · answer #6 · answered by shirleykins 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your just getting out of a marriage you shouldnt be ready to settle down so quickly be free and have fun then go settle down, why trade in your leg shackles for arm shackles
2006-11-10 18:59:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are going too fast, you are single again, it feels good doesn't it?.
2006-11-10 18:50:16 · answer #8 · answered by lara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should date around as much as possible to find the best man for you
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2006-11-10 18:45:52 · answer #9 · answered by c g 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋